Quoting Unsure..and scared:" Please don't ask me about adoption..I could not have a child and not raise the child myself.."
You absolutely don't have to. I could never do that, either. I'd honestly rather abort, if it was me.
If you think you can fit another baby into your life, then do it! don't worry about what other people think. It's your life. It doesn't sound like you're sure either way, so maybe you need to have a serious talk with your fiancee to see if raising another baby is something you could do together. It's nice that he is respecting that it is ultimately your decision, but at the same time, I know his input matters.