re: Lost on what to do. *VERY PERSONAL*

Quoting KLB*in*the*Sky*with*Judah:" I am so sorry. Whatever you decide it's your choice and I know you'll have support on here, either way."

i know everyone thinks it's shock, but i wouldn't take my anger out on my baby.
i'm trying to make the best decision.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bad {MAM} -A- Jamma:</b>" Haha I'm not... I mean unless I'm having Jesus twins. I haven't had sex in over 18mos. BOOOOOOOO to not by choice celibacy!"</blockquote>




lmao i know how you feel. its been 2 months for me. before that 9 lol. i tried to get some tonight but basrads engaged now lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MOMMY❀:</b>" i know everyone thinks it's shock, but i wouldn't take my anger out on my baby. i'm trying to make the best decision."</blockquote>




yes but giving up a child for adoption is wayyyyy hard than abortion imo. but its less stressful than raising another child. we are here to support you.

give yourself a day or so to process this and then figure out what you are going to do. make a list of everything and do pro and cons.

I PM'd you.. I hope my words help you. <3

You are absolutely NOT a horrible person! I've had two abortions and I felt the exact same way, both times. I could never put my child up for adoption; I wouldn't be able to carry him or her with me for 9 months and then just hand it over to someone else to care for and love. I'm not strong enough to "do what's right" so I aborted. That was the right thing for my son and I at the time and I do not regret either abortion at all. There's no way I could've been a single parent to two or three, and no one blames me. No one thinks I'm a horrible person and no one says anything bad to me for it.

If you want someone to talk to, someone who's been in your shoes, please know that I'm here. Any time of the day or night.

Quoting MOMMY❀:" I'm 8 weeks pregnant and my fiance and I found out tonight that he met another girl. I can't be a single ... [snip!] ... lost. I need to talk to him about it. But I really, really can't support two babies on my own. I'm a smurfing horrible person."

My mom is a single mom of six. You can do this!! =] She's a single mom and works full time as a department manager. I'm sorry youre going thru this but i'm sure you can do it. And adoptions are now open and you can choose the parents. You can be in your baby's life as much as you want. Just dont do something you know you'll regret. good luck!

Quoting ~SaraH.NaSH~:" My mom is a single mom of six. You can do this!! =] She's a single mom and works full time as a department ... [snip!] ... the parents. You can be in your baby's life as much as you want. Just dont do something you know you'll regret. good luck!"

My biggest fear is bringing a baby into the world with these problems. No baby deserves that.

Quoting MOMMY❀:" My biggest fear is bringing a baby into the world with these problems. No baby deserves that."

Yeah i hear you. But honestly, this world is a horrible place and babies are being made and brought into it everyday. Im sure its hard to make a decision but whatever you choose, i support you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MOMMY❀:</b>" My biggest fear is bringing a baby into the world with these problems. No baby deserves that."</blockquote>




You can do it. The world has so many problems and it always will but babies make it every day. If you choose to not abort, know that you have a support system here. And if you do choose to abort, you still have a support system. Always.

Quoting ~SaraH.NaSH~:" Yeah i hear you. But honestly, this world is a horrible place and babies are being made and brought into it everyday. Im sure its hard to make a decision but whatever you choose, i support you."

Thank you so much for the support, it means a lot. It does. I don't know what I want to do at all. I just want a happy family for my baby.

Quoting MOMMY❀:" Thank you so much for the support, it means a lot. It does. I don't know what I want to do at all. I just want a happy family for my baby."

You can make us mommies, or mommies to be your family =D we'll support you

Quoting alis volat propriis.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MOMMY❀:</b>" My biggest fear is bringing a baby into ... [snip!] ... to not abort, know that you have a support system here. And if you do choose to abort, you still have a support system. Always."

But the thing is, what if I can't? I'm not emotionally stable. My aunt is babysitting my daughter today just so I could have time alone and sort things out. I need me SO. I'm so in love and so attached. I don't want to bring baby into this world with a broken family and a depressed mother. I know the world is a bad place, but I at least want my baby to be happy.

Quoting ~SaraH.NaSH~:" You can make us mommies, or mommies to be your family =D we'll support you"

You guys are really making me feel better. I just need to make sure that I can emotionally and financially support another baby.

Quoting MOMMY❀:" You guys are really making me feel better. I just need to make sure that I can emotionally and financially support another baby."

I completely understand what youre saying. I am scared to be honest with you but I'm gonna give this baby the best life I can. I know how you're feeling about emotionally and financially being ready.

Quoting ~SaraH.NaSH~:" I completely understand what youre saying. I am scared to be honest with you but I'm gonna give this baby the best life I can. I know how you're feeling about emotionally and financially being ready."

I just feel like someone else could give her a better life. But I'm too stubborn to give baby up. Carrying him/her for nine months just for them to be taken away, leaving me just like my SO did. I'm pathetic.