first relationship after baby

Where did you meet your SO that was your first relationship after having your LO and/or breaking it off with LO's father?

How did you go about introducing them to LO?

How do you split your time between LO and SO?

Watching! I want to know the same.

Quoting A is Me:" Where did you meet your SO that was your first relationship after having your LO and/or breaking it off ... [snip!] ... it off with LO's father? How did you go about introducing them to LO? How do you split your time between LO and SO?"

Don't introduce your LO. Wait until you know FOR SURE that the guy is the one. Don't split your time between him and your LO. LO comes first and the guy will just have to understand. It's going to be hard, but if you find the right man, he will understand and be patient with you. I am speaking from experience

I had a 4 yr old and a 3 week old at the time. He was a family friend (of my ex's). I was actually staying with my ex boyfriends mother until i could get on my feet, since i just had LO. I left exBD when i was 7 months pregnant so we had been broken up for a good 2 months at least.

My current husband came to stay with my ex MIL because their house burnt down. So him and his family were staying there for a week or so. i had met him a time or two before. But this time really got us talking. We started spending more and more time together.. and it just clicked! 2 years later we are still together, just recently got married, and have a child together!

hmmm my first relationship was 4 years after my ex and i broke up and my daughter was just turned 4 it was a few days after her bday we had our first date and it was weird because i was pregnant with my second, he said he loved kids and loved to be around them so after our first date i bathed my daughter dressed her and said "mommys gonna have company over and i want him to meet you" she looked at me and said "ok"

when he came i had my lil girl sitting in dinningroom playing with her toys and when he came in he said hi to her and she was shy.

ive had dates in between my ex(her dad) and stuff but until i knew it was serious i didnt introduce them to her she didnt need that.

Quoting Melissa ღ:" Watching! I want to know the same."

I know right? I'm getting so lonely lately. I never go anywhere unless it's with DS so I have no idea how to go about trying to meet a guy...much less a decent one.

Quoting A is Me:" I know right? I'm getting so lonely lately. I never go anywhere unless it's with DS so I have no idea how to go about trying to meet a guy...much less a decent one."

I know the feeling! I wave been single since I was 6 weeks preggo and my bby is now almost 3 months old! I was starting to talk to a guy but he seems to be jealous my bd comes around to see DD because he thinks my bd wants me.

and its easy to spend time with them both me and my husband now (guy i mentioned in previous post) we did things together with the kids like go to park or watch silly dreamworks movies or even disney.

ate dinner at home or just came over to help me clean the kitty box he understood i was pregnant and already a mom.

a real good guy is hard to find but they are out there
and one who lets you juggle your time with both and mix is the best kind

I am not in a a relationship but I am spending time with a male friend that is helping me distract my.mind off the bs and baby daddy drama. I Deal with with LOs father.I meet thus guy in middle school so I've known.him for years we.just fell outta touch cuz I was stick.on my. ons.father for 4 years. I work full time M-F 8-6 so I'm not.with my son all day long. I only get evening s and.weekends so if I want to have alone time it is usually when my LO is sleeping. After 9pm or if my mom feels.like.being nice she might watch LO when.I get home from.work so like 7pm -? I like to spend as much time.with my son cuz hes only gonna be young for.so long. I wanna.cherish those moments. This friend has also not met my son yet either cuz hes.just.a friend.