Quoting A is Me:" Where did you meet your SO that was your first relationship after having your LO and/or breaking it off ... [snip!] ... it off with LO's father? How did you go about introducing them to LO? How do you split your time between LO and SO?"
Don't introduce your LO. Wait until you know FOR SURE that the guy is the one. Don't split your time between him and your LO. LO comes first and the guy will just have to understand. It's going to be hard, but if you find the right man, he will understand and be patient with you. I am speaking from experience