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posted 17th Apr '12

Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting pregnant and staying pregnant?

I just had a miscarriage and I see lots of girls on here and irl who are pregnant that do not understand how lucky they are and they do not deserve it

i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth

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I'm due July 21st & live in Kansas, Alabama

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3M'smom

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posted 17th Apr '12

Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"

Harsh.

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I have 3 kids & live in Illinois

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Dev ♥ M&M

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posted 17th Apr '12

Everything happens for a reason. I'm sorry for your loss.

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I have 2 kids & live in Slovakia

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Kimber-lily

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posted 17th Apr '12

I'm sorry you're upset, but I honestly don't think you can judge who should or should not have children.

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I'm due September 28th (a girl), have 4 kids & live in Nova Scotia

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posted 17th Apr '12

You have my condolences on your loss.

Still, don't talk smurf about the women on here, you're not in their shoes any more than they're in yours. Grief does not give you a right to just say a bunch of random women on here don't deserve a kid, and especially not less than you do.

C.

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I have 2 kids & live in Saint Catharines, Ontario

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kr.r

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posted 17th Apr '12

Why don't they deserve their pregnancies and their babies?

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I have 1 child & live in Kansas City, Missouri

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D+S+G= ♥

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posted 17th Apr '12

I'm sorry for your loss but who are you to decide if someone doesn't deserve it? Especially if you don't know them. I know this hurts & you are upset but that's not fair to others.

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I have 1 child & live in Alaska

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~~My Pet Wussy~~

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posted 17th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:</b>" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"</blockquote>

I understand this is in suffering & loss and that you are entitled to feel angry m hurt etc

But wow. Wo are you to judge who deserves to be pregnant and who doesn't?

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I have 3 kids & live in USA

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Angel [Mariah's Mommy]

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posted 17th Apr '12

I'm sorry for your loss, but seriously you have no right to say who should and shouldn't give birth.

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I have 1 child & live in Indianapolis, Indiana

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Barbara Evans.

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posted 17th Apr '12

Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"

Who are you to determine who is deserving of a baby and who is not?

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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Oak Island, North Carolina

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Monica.

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posted 17th Apr '12

I'm sorry for your loss.

But.. come on. Really?

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I have 2 kids & live in Owego, New York

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[♥Permanent♥]

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posted 17th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:</b>" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"</blockquote>

Can't contest to women oon here because u don't know them irl

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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Georgia

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Dev ♥ M&M

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posted 17th Apr '12

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" I'm sorry for your loss, but seriously you have no right to say who should and shouldn't give birth."

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I have 2 kids & live in Slovakia

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[Doe Eyed Dirty Lurker]

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posted 17th Apr '12

I was going to offer my deepest condolences...until I hit that last line. What a smurfy thing to say.

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I'm due June 30th (a boy), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Tennessee

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Tavi

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posted 17th Apr '12

Just because you're having a hard time with staying pregnant doesn't mean everyone else needs to stop having babies.

I'm sorry you had a miscarriage. It's rough, and it hurts, I know. But who are you to say someone shouldn't have a baby?

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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Washington

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