Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"
Your time will come.
Your body is telling you its not ready.
I had a MC about three weeks before conceiving this one.
some people go through 7 or more.
Just let sex be natural and don't push it.
Until you change your attitude about those around you
your karma will not change. Maturity takes knowing your time will come.
If you were ready you wouldn't think like that until you had a kid, and been there and done that.
One day when you have a child, someone out there will state,
THAT PERSON SHOULD NOT BE A PARENT!
Parenting isn't as easy as it SOUNDS...
There are 17 year olds who make better parents than some 30 year olds.
Hate to see it, but some people don't think the 17 year old deserves that child, when she loves and guides that child through life all her life. when the 30 year old beats the children they have, despises them, and spends no time with them, just working and placing their child in day care, come home, and sleep, and repeat.
So honestly who are YOU to judge who deserves a child?
Yes there are plenty of people out there who shouldn't be parents. They are BAD parents, but many are doing the best they can.
Having a child changes everything. Not all pregnancies go as planned.
Are you prepared to give up your career for this child you want if you have a hard pregnancy and are on bed rest? Put aside all your dreams and aspirations you worked your whole life for? Sacrifice your body, mind and soul for this baby? A Parent sacrifices a lot to be the best they can.
If you can't say yes to that, then perhaps you should wait.