re: Why

I was going to say sorry for your loss..
But, I dont think you deserve to have sympathy for how rude you are.
(:

I've had two miscarriages and I know the things that went through my head. I never wished miscarriage on someone else.. but I don't think that's really what you feel. I think your hormones are getting the best of you and I can relate to that. .But, posting something like that on here, you're putting a huge target on your back. I know with me that I would see people that I didn't think should ever reproduce (for multiple reasons) and it would make me mad/jealous that I lost mine when someone that I knew wouldn't be a good parent would be able to have a baby.
Just keep your head up & watch how you say/word things on here.

Sorry for your loss, but I think your reaction is just a tad bit harsh :/

You're a smurfing idiot.

BOOBIES!!  

Quoting LoBrew:" BOOBIES!!  "

I love me some boobies, but not her nasty boobs, they looked like fried eggs  

Quoting Alyssa's mommy [EBFT]:" I love me some boobies, but not her nasty boobs, they looked like fried eggs  "

Ahh what a buzz kill! lol

Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"

  Your time will come.

Your body is telling you its not ready.
I had a MC about three weeks before conceiving this one.
some people go through 7 or more.
Just let sex be natural and don't push it.
Until you change your attitude about those around you
your karma will not change. Maturity takes knowing your time will come.
If you were ready you wouldn't think like that until you had a kid, and been there and done that.
One day when you have a child, someone out there will state,
THAT PERSON SHOULD NOT BE A PARENT!
Parenting isn't as easy as it SOUNDS...
There are 17 year olds who make better parents than some 30 year olds.
Hate to see it, but some people don't think the 17 year old deserves that child, when she loves and guides that child through life all her life. when the 30 year old beats the children they have, despises them, and spends no time with them, just working and placing their child in day care, come home, and sleep, and repeat.
So honestly who are YOU to judge who deserves a child?
Yes there are plenty of people out there who shouldn't be parents. They are BAD parents, but many are doing the best they can.
Having a child changes everything. Not all pregnancies go as planned.

Are you prepared to give up your career for this child you want if you have a hard pregnancy and are on bed rest? Put aside all your dreams and aspirations you worked your whole life for? Sacrifice your body, mind and soul for this baby? A Parent sacrifices a lot to be the best they can.
If you can't say yes to that, then perhaps you should wait.

Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"

like you

I know how you feel and it sucks me and my b/f tried for 2 yrs and finally i was prego then i lost it at 13 weeks and i was mad at the world and everyone says it happenes for a reason but in my eyes it didnt make it any better .then i would see all these girls in my town not taking care of there kids and here they were having more it made me so pissed that i lost mine and i would have been such a great mother .But 3 months after my miscarriage i found out i was prego again and this time im so scared but i was told everything is fine . Go to you doctor and they will give you ways to help you get prego thats what we had to do

 

Quoting nicole dailey:" I know how you feel and it sucks me and my b/f tried for 2 yrs and finally i was prego then i lost it ... [snip!] ... but i was told everything is fine . Go to you doctor and they will give you ways to help you get prego thats what we had to do"

Well said! I think once you've actually been there, you really understand what can go on through other people's heads. I havn't seen her on since, I really hope she's ok.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Selena Poomonkey:</b>" Well said! I think once you've actually been there, you really understand what can go on through other people's heads. I havn't seen her on since, I really hope she's ok."</blockquote>




The op os a troll and no 1 has the right to wish a miscarriage on anyone or think theyre more deserving to have a child then someone else maybe