re: I don't know what to do...

do not make a decision based on him. It is your body your heart and your mind. Do what feels right to you. If you decide to keep this baby, I am sure you will find a wayto make it work. Yes it might be hard work both physically and financially, but you have it in you to make it work. It's normal to be aprhensive about having another so soon so don't feel bad for feeling that way.

Family may be in shock right now and just worried for you. If you do keep the baby, I am sure that they will love this child just as much as your first. I'd also like to congradulate you on this pregnancy as well. It's a scary, nerve wrecking, but wonderful thing to go through.  

I'm sorry you're going through this   . I'm having baby #2 in September and when I told my family they weren't excited either but eventually they came around. My SO's family was excited because this is his first child. You shouldn't be pressured into doing something you don't want to do. It took both of you to make this baby so he should've thought about that before doing the deed. My SO is excited but he was terrified in the beginning (even though baby was planned). Guys are just weird like that sometimes, mayebe he's worried about providing for another one. If you feel that you should get an abortion and that is what you really want then that's your choice.But if you don't feel right about it then don't do it. I hope things get better for you!

Im sure you can do it!! I got preg with my 3rd when my 2nd was 10 mon and i was not ready...i cried and cried but she is the best thing ever and .. would never change that. now we are having #4 and im happy but of course this is our last. Things happen for a reason, IMO i would never abort any child, not being mean but the way i see it and tell my self is if you dont want to get pregnant protect or dont have sex....it doesnt always work out that way. Im sorry im no help, i think every baby is precious so i hope you can come to a desicion. You never know he might change his mind. stay strong and good luck!

I believe that if you are with the father you should take his feeling into consideration but that does not mean you should deffinately have an abortion or not have one just because of him, ultimately it is up to you, you are the one who would be going threw the emotional and physical trama that eather one may cause