re: Angel babies

Quoting Kea O_O:" I don't consider my miscarrage as 'angel' babys so if I had had an abortion I would not consider it as ... [snip!] ... wouldn't consider any child an 'angel' baby unless they were born at a viable time and then died. but to each there own."

That seems a bit sad :-(

I believe any child who has passed on is an Angel baby. No matter why they passed or how whether it be miscarriage, abortion, murder, sids etc. They are all in heaven and are angel babies.

Hrrrmmm...

I consider my unwanted abortion an Angel Baby. I think it depends on the women and the reasoning or her story and I think it is her business. You know there is no way to morn an abortion or miscarriage (though usually with a mc you at least have ultrasounds). My babys 1 year due date is coming up on sept 18th and not a day goes by since the day I had my abortion that I do not regret my decision or think about my child. and like I said I have no way to morn my loss theres no evidence anymore that I was even pregnant at all. My baby is an angel to me and that is all that matters.

I consider my unwanted abortion an Angel Baby. I think it depends on the women and the reasoning or her story and I think it is her business. You know there is no way to morn an abortion or miscarriage (though usually with a mc you at least have ultrasounds). My babys 1 year due date is coming up on sept 18th and not a day goes by since the day I had my abortion that I do not regret my decision or think about my child. and like I said I have no way to morn my loss theres no evidence anymore that I was even pregnant at all. My baby is an angel to me and that is all that matters.

Apparently my orginal post was viewed as innappropriate for this topic, Wich is kinda crappy becasue i stated my thoughts. My thoughts are just this.

An angel baby IMO is a loss of a WANTED child or pregancy, I do not feel abortions are included becasue to me, its kinda morbid to "Honnor the death of" Something/Someone you MADE THE CHOICE to terminate.

I mean to me, i wouldnt understand greiving or moruning an abortion. You made that choice, and regaurdless of the situation there is no turning back, so in making the choice you should be sound and confident with your decision..so to me a mourning process just doesnt make since, why would you imortilize or mourn something you sought out to end?

Guilt is a interly diffrent process and that is not what i am getting at..

But what it comes down to is to each their own. This is just my personal view.

This needs to go to TDC... This is not the place for this type of talk...

Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" Apparently my orginal post was viewed as innappropriate for this topic, Wich is kinda crappy becasue ... [snip!] ... process and that is not what i am getting at.. But what it comes down to is to each their own. This is just my personal view."

I consider my aborted baby an angel baby...

You have never been in that place so kindly be quiet.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" This needs to go to TDC... This is not the place for this type of talk... "

I dont think it needs to be drama cornered, but it does need to be else where, this is a very heated question to ask..

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" I consider my aborted baby an angel baby... You have never been in that place so kindly be quiet. "

You are so right, i havent.. but i know that no one could "Force" me to do something with my body i know i wouldnt choose to do, Ive already made up my mind what i would do should i become pregnant at an unwanted time.. Just becasue i havent been through it, doesnt mean i cant have a view on what i feel is or isnt an angel baby.

Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" I dont think it needs to be drama cornered, but it does need to be else where, this is a very heated question to ask.."

No it does need to go to TDC.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" No it does need to go to TDC. "

Debate and dicuss is where i feel it should be, But thats to say that people could actually do such a thing with a topic like this.

Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" Debate and dicuss is where i feel it should be, But thats to say that people could actually do such a thing with a topic like this."

Right now this thread can either A) stay here (hopefully it won't) or B) move to TDC. Those are the only two options.

Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" Apparently my orginal post was viewed as innappropriate for this topic, Wich is kinda crappy becasue ... [snip!] ... process and that is not what i am getting at.. But what it comes down to is to each their own. This is just my personal view."

My very wanted child had a fatal birth defect (anencephaly) that would have killed him very shortly after birth if not earlier. The only difference between abortion and continuing the pregnancy was that I could (in my opinion) minimize his pain by interrupting the pregnancy earlier. Not all abortions are for unwanted pregnancies  .

Quoting BrittanieY:" My very wanted child had a fatal birth defect (anencephaly) that would have killed him very shortly ... [snip!] ... (in my opinion) minimize his pain by interrupting the pregnancy earlier. Not all abortions are for unwanted pregnancies  ."

I stated this already, I am more or less prochild . I dont agree with abortions as a form of birth controll. I belive that it is a medical procedure and should only be avalible for medical reasons or rape. This was included in my first post if you did not see it.. I kinda condenced this second post because i apparently need to watch what i say.