Quoting BG Secrets:" Well i have 3 kids already so it sucks but i have to think about them first as bad as this may sound   "

It only makes you responsible sweety. you have to take care of your kids and knowing that you can't add more to your plate makes this the best solution for you.

Nicole bales you need to delete your comment (hit the edit button) this is a protected part of the site your post is prohibited.

Quoting BG Secrets:" Sometime i do feel a bit smurf!!! because its about money but 4 kids and no money = homeless or barely living. But thanks girls some people just made me feel like i was being selfish "

DO NOT FEEL SELFISH!!! i have a 1 yr old and just recently found out I was pregnant again. I swore I would "get rid of it". i called clinics and all that stuff but found out I was having twins and couldn't go through with it. I felt totally selfish wanting to get rid of them but then i thought of my son and how it would affect him. You have to do what is right for YOU and your family. good luck girl. You have tons of support here!

I don't think its wrong. I had one at 6 weeks and i felt the same way. I was releived when i was done. I cryed for 2 days after thank god my kids were in school. It was easy to hide it when they were home. You are a good women and you are thinking about your kids. Don't let any one tell you different.