re: Dramatic babies

Quoting hasmeen:" no im not i put him in his bumbo seat if im in the kitchen and in his jumper if im in the living room ... [snip!] ... on his swing or in his play mat if im in the room i try not to hold him to much hopping it will help me break him from me loll"

awww, lol, I don't think that'll work but if he's fine being down then I would do the same thing! This is why I'm not having another baby right now like I had always planned on, lol

Quoting Quinn's Momma♥(BMM):" Yeah if its just me and Quinn home by ourselves shes an angels but once daddy gets here shes throws her fits. Its likes she wants all my attention and she doesn't want me to give him any lol"

Yep! Now that he's older he actually PUSHES us apart if we hug or get too close!

i used to work in a day care in a class of 20 babies from 6 weeks old up to 13 months. We had several children in the class with separation anxiety. It took time for all of them. They have to learn to trust people on their own. If there was a sub or a new staff member, it was hell for like 2 weeks in there, however the children would learn how to deal with it. I noticed though that it helped that they were being socialized with other babies and people. Have you tried a play date with other friends or families with other children? Just to kind of get your child familiar with being around others. Start gradually and see where that goes  

The diaper changing only gets worse unfortunately...lol

Quoting Colt's mommy:" awww, lol, I don't think that'll work but if he's fine being down then I would do the same thing! This is why I'm not having another baby right now like I had always planned on, lol"

as long as he can see me he is happy loll
yeah i just plan on having him i like my sleep to much to go back to little to no sleep

Quoting Lorilydell87:" i used to work in a day care in a class of 20 babies from 6 weeks old up to 13 months. We had several ... [snip!] ... other children? Just to kind of get your child familiar with being around others. Start gradually and see where that goes  "

i live far away from all my frineds and family so i dont know anyone around me with a baby loll but i really wish i could get my son around other babys

My youngest was the most dramatic baby I had, Constant screaming, fits over nothing. She never outgrew it though, she's 3 and still very clingy. The drama is now combined with demanding and opinionated and I'm not sure it's ever going to get better. We don't fight over diapers we fight over underwear. We fight over clothing, hair brushing, teeth brushing, baths, dinner, toys, and well pretty much everything, hahaha. I've need had a single day she didn't have a meltdown over something minor. She won't give in at all either. There's no compromise. I've tried waiting her out before and she will keep at it until she literally makes herself sick from crying. All over not getting the red bowl or wanting me to carry her everywhere or wanting to wear a sweater when it's 90 out.

Quoting hasmeen:" i live far away from all my frineds and family so i dont know anyone around me with a baby loll but i really wish i could get my son around other babys"

I didn't know anyone around here either but I've met 4 girls (3 on BG) and we do play dates regularly! I'm the only one that's not a SAHM so they all get together a lot more often

Quoting Colt's mommy:" I didn't know anyone around here either but I've met 4 girls (3 on BG) and we do play dates regularly! I'm the only one that's not a SAHM so they all get together a lot more often"

i live in a tiny town in Georgia i dont think their will be many girls from around her on BG. what is SAHM?

Quoting hasmeen:" i live in a tiny town in Georgia i dont think their will be many girls from around her on BG. what is SAHM? "

Stay at home mom. I'm in the city so there's a lot here. All the ones I know are all military moms except for one.

Quoting Colt's mommy:" Stay at home mom. I'm in the city so there's a lot here. All the ones I know are all military moms except for one."

oh that makes sense loll im pretty much a stay at home mom exept that i go to school once a week lol
i have lots of friends with babys they are just all in California

Quoting hasmeen:" oh that makes sense loll im pretty much a stay at home mom exept that i go to school once a week lol i have lots of friends with babys they are just all in California "

hmm are there any local daycares in the area? I not suggesting leaving him there, maybe see if you can volunteer there once or twice a week in exchange of bringing your son with you to kind of sociallize him and get hims used to others. It may be a great opportunity for you to meet others as well.

Youngest is 10m & does the saaame thing. We try to talk to her a lot & explain what we're doing. Overall her fits seem to be shorter in length (not always), and they are not limited to us. She'll do it to anyone once she figures out she's not the center of attention. I don't remember my son doing anything even remotely close lol

Quoting Lorilydell87:" hmm are there any local daycares in the area? I not suggesting leaving him there, maybe see if you ... [snip!] ... with you to kind of sociallize him and get hims used to others. It may be a great opportunity for you to meet others as well."

yes their is i started working in one and then i found out i was pregnant and i think my old boss dosnt like me because i quit