re: A mistake..(long vent)

Quoting BG Secrets:" I understand where you're coming from. Even though I would have kept the baby if he hadn't pushed abortion- ... [snip!] ... because I KNOW I could have raised it if I really wanted too, really tried. Sometimes I feel like I took the easy way out. "

There's nothing easy about what you did!!

Quoting Laneys*Mama:" There's nothing easy about what you did!!"

I know. This wasn't easy for me, I just wish I could go back and fight to keep it instead of just giving into him and what he wanted.

Quoting BG Secrets:" I know. This wasn't easy for me, I just wish I could go back and fight to keep it instead of just giving into him and what he wanted."

I understand that. I don't think I could ever do what you did, but it's done now, ya know?  

Quoting BG Secrets:" I understand where you're coming from. Even though I would have kept the baby if he hadn't pushed abortion- ... [snip!] ... because I KNOW I could have raised it if I really wanted too, really tried. Sometimes I feel like I took the easy way out. "

I can’t say this strongly enough - it was absolutely NOT the easy way out!! Give yourself some credit. What you went through was not easy, the decision to terminate was not easy, living with the decision is not easy, moving forward is not easy.

You made the best choice you could for yourself and your LO. And I really don’t give a smurf what others may say about this, but you also made the best choice for your Angel. Sure you could have done it, no doubt about it, but at what cost?

Give yourself a break Mumma <3

Quoting Laneys*Mama:" I understand that. I don't think I could ever do what you did, but it's done now, ya know?  "

I know. I just don't know if I'll ever fully forgive myself for doing it. I'm trying to move on and continue my life with my son its just hard to stop thinking about it.

Quoting Yellow Diamond:" I can’t say this strongly enough - it was absolutely NOT the easy way out!! Give yourself some credit. ... [snip!] ... choice for your Angel. Sure you could have done it, no doubt about it, but at what cost? Give yourself a break Mumma <3"

! This. YOU could have done it, but how much would your child and your angel have had to miss out on because you were struggling with no support from what seems like a dead beat?

Quoting Yellow Diamond:" I can’t say this strongly enough - it was absolutely NOT the easy way out!! Give yourself some credit. ... [snip!] ... choice for your Angel. Sure you could have done it, no doubt about it, but at what cost? Give yourself a break Mumma <3"

You're right. Its not easy. And I am going to try to give myself a break. I am being hard on myself.

Quoting Laneys*Mama:" ! This. YOU could have done it, but how much would your child and your angel have had to miss out on because you were struggling with no support from what seems like a dead beat?"

I know. They would probably miss out on a lot. I do need to be less hard on myself.

Quoting BG Secrets:" You're right. Its not easy. And I am going to try to give myself a break. I am being hard on myself. "

Good to hear   Dont be afraid to ask for help either. As you can see we dont mind telling you to get your head back in the game when your being too hard on yourself <3