re: The toughest decision ever....

Quoting Mirah:" I have to admit, I'm normally prolife, but situtations like yours are the exception. It's an awful and ... [snip!] ... into BG but I'll pray for you, that whatever decision you end up making you have peace about it in your heart. {{{HUGS}}}"

   in these situations you have to. your son needs a mom more than a sibling.

ill be praying

Good luck to you. You definitely seem to be very mature and I'm sure this decision wasn't made easily. Do what's best for you and your family!

Quoting Hailee(::" Thank you everyone for the advice. I did a lot of research on it so far. They say they give you that, ... [snip!] ... of you and antibiotics and pain pills. I know this is going to weigh heavy on my heart. ): I appreciate all the reassurance!!"

Oh, sweetheart. <3

I just want you to know you shouldn't feel guilty. Preserving your life and health to be there for your child and family are so important.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mirah:</b>" I have to admit, I'm normally prolife, but situtations like yours are the exception. It's an awful and ... [snip!] ... into BG but I'll pray for you, that whatever decision you end up making you have peace about it in your heart. {{{HUGS}}}"</blockquote>




She's already made her decision.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Derpy Hooves:</b>" Oh, sweetheart. <3 I just want you to know you shouldn't feel guilty. Preserving your life and health to be there for your child and family are so important."</blockquote>




!!!!!!!! You're good mom for making this difficult choice.

Quoting Mirah:" I have to admit, I'm normally prolife, but situtations like yours are the exception. It's an awful and ... [snip!] ... into BG but I'll pray for you, that whatever decision you end up making you have peace about it in your heart. {{{HUGS}}}"

I'm a really firm believer in Christ, so all the prayers help. I have made it though. and before this I never thought I would get one or anything. but I do understand that there are circumstances in which it's the only option you are left with. While it weighs heavy on my heart, I know that it's what is best in my mind.

Quoting *Lolo*:"    in these situations you have to. your son needs a mom more than a sibling. ill be praying"

Yes.. My SO also brought up the point that if I do go through and I don't make it and neither does the baby, it would have been for nothing. and Wyatt is stuck with no one.

Quoting LezBeHonest[MAM]:" Good luck to you. You definitely seem to be very mature and I'm sure this decision wasn't made easily. Do what's best for you and your family!"

Thank you momma! and i love your avi too!

Quoting Derpy Hooves:" Oh, sweetheart. <3 I just want you to know you shouldn't feel guilty. Preserving your life and health to be there for your child and family are so important."

That's probably one of the most comforting comments yet. Thank you <3

Quoting Derpy Hooves:" Oh, sweetheart. <3 I just want you to know you shouldn't feel guilty. Preserving your life and health to be there for your child and family are so important."

That's probably one of the most comforting comments yet. Thank you <3

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Derpy Hooves:</b>" Oh, sweetheart. <3 I just want you to ... [snip!] ... for your child and family are so important."</blockquote> !!!!!!!! You're good mom for making this difficult choice."

Well thank you very much!

Quoting Derpy Hooves:" Oh, sweetheart. <3 I just want you to know you shouldn't feel guilty. Preserving your life and health to be there for your child and family are so important."

and I guess the other reason I feel guilty is because my health is just one of many reasons. Honestly another is that, I truly don't want another child by another man that I am not married too. Guarenteed my first pregnancy was a product of rape.. but if something happens to me and SO (god forbid!) I would have children with two different men that I'm not with.. Yah know?

Quoting Hailee(::" Thank you momma! and i love your avi too!"

well thanks  

Quoting Hailee(::" and I guess the other reason I feel guilty is because my health is just one of many reasons. Honestly ... [snip!] ... but if something happens to me and SO (god forbid!) I would have children with two different men that I'm not with.. Yah know?"

Your emotional wellbeing is just as important as your physical health to me.
I would never question why a woman wants to make a tough decision. You weighed heavily on it in your mind and came to the best decision you can.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hailee(::</b>" and I guess the other reason I feel guilty is because my health is just one of many reasons. Honestly ... [snip!] ... but if something happens to me and SO (god forbid!) I would have children with two different men that I'm not with.. Yah know?"</blockquote>




To me, that is just as adequate a reason as your physical health.