Pregnant should I get an abortion?

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I missed my period a little over a weeks ago. This is unreal. I have a 1.5 year old and am a single mother living with my parents with no job.

I found out I was pregnant a week an a half ago. IMO abortion is something I thought I would never do for my own moral reasons. With my first child I knew she could have a genetic condition and I still couldn't get an abortion.

But now with this child, the father could be 1 of 2 guys. I have a SO we have been on and off for over a year. If this child isn;t his I know he will somehow manage to throw it in my face at some point even if he love the child and raises it as his own. I do not in anyway want to talk to the other guy whos child this could be.

I feel like abortion is what I should do, I mean I can not support my first child let alone another. Trying to get through college with one child is hard, having two young children with no help would be so hard for me.

Yet part of me doesn't want this abortion.

I am scedualed to have it done tomorrow and know if I wait any longer I will not get one, but I still don't really want to go.

I am so lost and upset that I allowed myself to get in this horrible situation :[

You still didnt post in Abortion survivors

Yes it is.

You do what you think is best.

if you feel this is the right thing to do for you then do it.

Quoting Lyn-Z {Amelie's Mommy}:" You still didnt post in Abortion survivors"

yes, she did.

I think it would be best right now.

if you think this is something you would never do, and feel guilty before you do it,id suggest not to. if you already feel guilt imagine how you would feel after?

just make sure what you choose to do is something you won't regret.
there are other options hun.

sorry you feel this way. good luck on making our decision.

if you're going to get an abortion you need to get it because it's what YOU want, and not what you want in honor of some guy, or because of a reaction someone might have.

An abortion cannot be undone.

You need to do what YOU need to do, but make sure you're not doing it for anyone else.

Quoting Lyn-Z {Amelie's Mommy}:" You still didnt post in Abortion survivors"

Yes she did. It clearly says that at the top.

OP, that's your decision but I wish you the best of luck. I, however, would abort in that situation if I were in your shoes.

If your not sure then don't do it. You need to be sure. Have you thought about adoption?

Weigh the pros and cons of each choice. I'm sorry you have to go through this, but we can't make you decide. It's something only you can to decide. Good luck hun.

It sounds like you aren't in the position to raise another child right now. If you feel like you can't go through with abortion, then there is adoption. Good luck with your decision!

No one can tell you whether or not having an abortion would be best for your situation. Every person is different. What you should think about is whether or not getting it would be better in the long run.

Whatever your decision is, I wish you luck!

<blockquote><b>Quoting john casey (mtka):</b>" if you feel this is the right thing to do for you then do it."</blockquote>




Ditto. You said it yourself, you won't have the support and it's already tough on you with the one.