I missed my period a little over a weeks ago. This is unreal. I have a 1.5 year old and am a single mother living with my parents with no job.
I found out I was pregnant a week an a half ago. IMO abortion is something I thought I would never do for my own moral reasons. With my first child I knew she could have a genetic condition and I still couldn't get an abortion.
But now with this child, the father could be 1 of 2 guys. I have a SO we have been on and off for over a year. If this child isn;t his I know he will somehow manage to throw it in my face at some point even if he love the child and raises it as his own. I do not in anyway want to talk to the other guy whos child this could be.
I feel like abortion is what I should do, I mean I can not support my first child let alone another. Trying to get through college with one child is hard, having two young children with no help would be so hard for me.
Yet part of me doesn't want this abortion.
I am scedualed to have it done tomorrow and know if I wait any longer I will not get one, but I still don't really want to go.
I am so lost and upset that I allowed myself to get in this horrible situation :[
No one can tell you whether or not having an abortion would be best for your situation. Every person is different. What you should think about is whether or not getting it would be better in the long run.