Quoting myr-a-myr:" It's called KARMA. If you treat people like smurf, people will treat you with that exact same smurf you just threw in their face. "Nope its called hypocrite.
Quoting ~Carole~:" Well I'm glad your friend got clean! And yourself. I hope this girl does too. It just makes me upset to see mothers doing drugs and getting pregnant. "
Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:" I'm glad too. And honestly looking back I have no clue why I ever used in the first place, but we don't ... [snip!] ... to have the best possible outcome, so don't judge, when you judge it makes it even harder for the people to want to get help"Yeah, I understand that last sentence quite well. And I don't think I'm better because I never did drugs. I just can't stand the fact that she did it while pregnant. But whats done is done. Hopefully she will get help..
Quoting ~Carole~:" Nope its called hypocrite. "
Quoting ~Carole~:" Yeah, I understand that last sentence quite well. And I don't think I'm better because I never did drugs. ... [snip!] ... did drugs. I just can't stand the fact that she did it while pregnant. But whats done is done. Hopefully she will get help.."
Quoting myr-a-myr:" How is giving you the exact same treatment that you give others hypocrite? Being understanding to one ... [snip!] ... not being to another in the same situation about addiction would be hypocritical. This is by far not the same situation. "She was being hypocritical by judging me based on how I feel about one subject. That's what I was saying.It's very wrong what this girl did. Using drugs while pregnant.Think about it. Is that not totally wrong? I've known people who did drugs and stopped when they knew they were pregnant. It CAN be done. I know a few people actually. She just needs to go get help. She never once mentioned anything about getting help. So that is a cause for concern. No? She just asked if it would hurt her baby since she's been doing it for weeks.
Quoting ~Carole~:" She was being hypocritical by judging me based on how I feel about one subject. That's what I was saying.It's ... [snip!] ... help. So that is a cause for concern. No? She just asked if it would hurt her baby since she's been doing it for weeks. "
Quoting myr-a-myr:" I used to work for CPS. Trust me I've seen it too. Some can stop others can't. Everyone's body reacts ... [snip!] ... louder then the will power of the addict. Seeking help is a HUGE step and criticism is the last thing that individual needs. "You're right, it probably took a lot for her to post what she did.I just get angry about stuff easily.Some of the stuff I said, I shouldn't have said.I hope she seeks help and succeeds.
Quoting Queen_B:" It seems really smurfed up to me you waited so long to be asking these questions. I understand addiction ... [snip!] ... of your child every time you are tempted to do a line or take a pill. Imagine giving that to your child when they are newborn. "Um if she has sought treatment and stayed clean and the baby tests clean CPS will more than likely not do anything. It is good that she did this no, but if you try and look to a positive side (and trust me I am in no way shape or form condoning what she did) she said she has only used 6 times. And yes, I know just one time is enough to cause damage, but she's trying to get help now to stop. It would make it a lot easier for people to get the help if others would put their judgments aside and just help her.
Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:" Um if she has sought treatment and stayed clean and the baby tests clean CPS will more than likely not ... [snip!] ... to stop. It would make it a lot easier for people to get the help if others would put their judgments aside and just help her."
Quoting Queen_B:" I said she should get help. >.> Sorry my post seems judgmental, but I'm simply bringing to her ... [snip!] ... because of those times my mother did coke. I do understand that addicts do these things and I'm glad she is getting help now. "I know you did, and trust me like I said I know those 6 times can bring horrible results, and you know this first hand and that's very sad. But for someone who's been on the results end of what this can do to a baby you would think you would hold judgement back and just offer the supportive advice, which I know you did do. I'm not trying to sound like a bitch, I'm just saying kwim?
Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:" I know you did, and trust me like I said I know those 6 times can bring horrible results, and you know ... [snip!] ... back and just offer the supportive advice, which I know you did do. I'm not trying to sound like a bitch, I'm just saying kwim?"
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