Quoting anonymom:" So I had an episiotomy that was ridiculously painful, took almost the full sex weeks to heal, and has ... [snip!] ... know why. It's been there since I was sewn back up. Has anyone had a similar experience? What do you do to relieve the pain?"Yep. I am almost 12 weeks PP and it hurts to have sex and I know it's because of the episiotomy. Not sure if it's the way I was cut or not but I definitely have scar tissue down there or something because nothing feels the same... sex NEVER used to be painful for me. Now it kills. The only thing that has helped me is a ton of lube.
Quoting Levi and Brooklyn's Mommy:" how far pp are you? it hurt a while after we started having sex again , like quite a few months after my first. also i get a lot of pressure when i get AF its weird"
Quoting anonymom:" Probably shoulda put that! LO is 19 months. It SHOULDN'T feel like this for this long! This is way ... [snip!] ... rubbed back and forth and it's just too sensitive... It feels a bit like a rugburn, I guess. IDK what to do about it, though :/"
Quoting Levi and Brooklyn's Mommy:" yea wow !! maybe you could talk to your OB about getting that peice of skin removed"
Quoting anonymom:" I need tofind a new one.. the one who delivered LO is never coming near my vagina again. Not even with a ten foot pole. "lol i can understand that good luck