Quoting The Doctor:" Out of curiosity, have you tried to find her contact information? I wish you and your SO a lot of luck. ... [snip!] ... a lot of luck. Sounds like you're both in a hard spot and trying to support each other. Be patient, be honest, and love. <3"
oh i know how to get a hold of her....
its just complicated is all. i mean, this is the very shortened verrry quick version of the story.
i dont think it would be a good idea to jump back into her life and throw all this on her lap.
i think we hurt each other enough for now.
if there were a way to truly say i was sorry, and have her really understand...maybe. but i think maybe through all the emotional sludge we built up things will just get tied up again.
but then again, i know she wants to move on, this was a couple years ago, so im sure she has.
At least i still have a chance with SO.
Thanks so much, after this eye opener i feel like i can really understand his side a lot better so maybe this was a kind of breakthrough.