Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:" we didnt make it. He couldnt handle the transition. My cousin gave him a job but then fired him. So he ... [snip!] ... So he lost it. I tried for 2 years but he still was having problems. so we just didnt make it. Sorry I couldnt be more help."Did he rejoin?
Quoting Always♥Faithful:" Did he rejoin?"
Quoting Elle With Three:" My current SO has no military background, but, I went through this transition with my ex (children's ... [snip!] ... smurffy it is, depends entirely on how you and SO handle stress and how you respond to the needs of each other and your family."
Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:" I wanted him to. He went through everything to rejoin but couldnt get the MOS he wanted. That and his ... [snip!] ... disown him. He couldnt rejoin to disappoint them. He was so much happier in. I think we would have made it had he rejoined."
Quoting Always♥Faithful:" I've been in tears nearly all day with the thoughts of failing. My husband is in a pool of future ... [snip!] ... a position. I plan on going back to school, but I just want to kick myself in the ass bc I feel so worthless. I'm so worried."
Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:" Ok so now that I have a baby off the boob I can explain this better. I met my ex husband while he was ... [snip!] ... to transition better, we'd probably still be together, but he just couldn't transition and didn't want help with transitioning."
Quoting Andrea Schneider:" Hmm my husband is still in the marines but gets out in January and I'm nervous about it but to me military ... [snip!] ... being law enforcement. They like to take people with military background. My husband is thinking about becoming a US Marshal"
Quoting Elle With Three:" All stressing out is going to do, is cause some unnessicary grey hairs. Don't let yourself feel worthless ... [snip!] ... you wouldn't be worried about a thing, you'd be content to scrape by, instead of being proactive and trying to plan things."