RIP My babys father.

I dont know if anyone else is going though this. I am 37 weekspregnant with my first child. My former fiance which is my babys father passed away in a car accident last Sep and I was about 9 weeks pregnant. His family has been VERY supportive up intill a month ago and now arn't talking to me. Im dealing with his lase okay. I keep everything inside and try not to talk about it with other people for the babys health. I have the support of my friends and my family but wish I could have his families support. I have gone thought this whole pregnancy alone and will be rasing my baby as a single parent. I somtimes feel I will never find someone to be in a relationship with again. If anyone has any advise or is dealing with the same issue please share. Thanks.

im so sorry! i dont know what id do if i lost my babys father and i always worry bout it!! im really sorry 

sorry for your loss,
but at least there is a little piece of him with you.
why arent they talking to you?

Why aren 't they talking to you? This baby is a part of him too, you would think they would want something to do with him.

Was your relathionship with BD good before he passed? I have to say I have not experienced what you're going through but it's never healthy to bottle things up. You will love this forum. Heaps of amazing women here and you are bound to find a kindred spirit xx

I dont know the whole reason why there not talking to me. I was living with them for a lil bit trying to build a relationship with them and I decided to move out because there was to much pain and crying and all it was doing was stressing me out. I had to move back with my mom for her support. I believe that is why they arnt talking to me.

Quoting Sunshine Kilgore:“ I dont know if anyone else is going though this. I am 37 weekspregnant with my first child. My former ... [snip!] ... someone to be in a relationship with again. If anyone has any advise or is dealing with the same issue please share. Thanks.”

I'm so sorry for your loss but I must say you are a brave young woman for dealing with this. I don't think I could have half the strength if I ever went through anything like this or what many other women on this forum go through. Chin up though you have so much to look forward to =D.

awww im sorry that u have to go through this....ur a stronger women that i would be.....i think i would seriously fall apart.....if u need to talk to someone u can pm me

Quoting ~*Isabellahs Mommy*~:“ im so sorry! i dont know what id do if i lost my babys father and i always worry bout it!! im really sorry ”

I'm the same way!!!


OP- I'm so sorry, I can't imagine how you must feel    

I was with him 6 months when he passed. We would of been a family. I never really met his family before he passed. I was going to meet everyone thanksgiving but ended up meeting them at his funeral. He has a x-wife that treated him bad and they have a son together and after they divorced she would never let him see there kid. My fiances family believes that I would of turned out like her. Its kinda a HUGE mess but this is pretty much the sum of it.

You know thats really hard, maybe they are havin a hard time knowing whether or not to be apart of the baby's life or let you find someone who may be willing to take over the father roll which he cannot do upon this earth now. They want the best for you and the baby I am sure unless they have some hurt feelings they are holding onto for some reason. If they are mad that they feel they are losing some sort of control over you because you decided to move out, I would just say that you need to be independent and it was hard living there cuz of his death. Give it time, I don't think that it will be this way forever. I am so sorry that youv'e had to deal with this.

Quoting Sunshine Kilgore:“ I dont know the whole reason why there not talking to me. I was living with them for a lil bit trying ... [snip!] ... was doing was stressing me out. I had to move back with my mom for her support. I believe that is why they arnt talking to me.”

oh ok. wow, thats a silly reason for them not to talk to you. im sorry for that as well as your loss.

All of the women here are VERY supportive on this type of thing. I am so sorry, I don't know how you feel but, I lost my father a couple days before I found out I was having a girl back in October. If you ever need someone to talk to yu can always PM me.

Just think about it this way, he's always with you in your heart and your child will always hold a piece of him. She may even come out being excatly like her father.

Quoting About to have a mini me!:“ I dont know if anyone else is going though this. I am 37 weekspregnant with my first child. My former ... [snip!] ... someone to be in a relationship with again. If anyone has any advise or is dealing with the same issue please share. Thanks.”

Oh my goodness.. Im so sorry and I hope everything turns out okay..
Is there a reason that his family isnt being supportive anymore?

Sorry for your loss..I dont know what i would do if anything happened to my boyfriend/Father of my son...i already worry so much about him when he rides his Motorcycle..
I hope they come around though..because the baby should get to know the other half of his family..have you tried contacting them??