Quoting Bovine Burlesque:" Oh and I will say this, kids pick up on things every easily, even if you think you do not show that you ... [snip!] ... not the biological child and it was evident from a very young to me that I was treated differently to the biological children. "
i try not to treat them differently..i do ...my kids get disciplined the same if not more than my step kids.
they get into fights with me if i get the kids a $1 toy from target or something..something that isnt their age appropriate...that will set them off or my sisters getting the kids something and not them...i cant make my sisters buy them things..
but i do have a different love towards them...but i love them... i tell them it too. i just dont know what they want from me...
i do everything for them...i mean everything.. dh works i SAH
why cant they respect me like they do their dad ...
oh and when they are super mad at me i get the
" we dont have to listen to you you arent our mother!"
yet they call me mom and when they need something i am the best!