Quoting magicalskittlz:" just like old friends of mine that were super good friends til i got pregnant , during my whole pregnancy ... [snip!] ... here and there* about what a bad mother i am because i want to go out once every few months to dance and have some drinks"
That's life. People are going to talk and assume smurf all the time, you just have to learn not to let it get to you. No mom is perfect and lord knows there is NOTHING wrong with taking a break to do something for yourself every now and then. As long as you aren't out doing stuff all the time, then i dont see a problem. And as far as friends not hanging out with you anymore, I know how you feel. I'm 20 years old so most of my friends aren't married with kids and they would rather be out partying. Since I don't do that anymore we don't really hang out or talk that much anymore either.