re: Im new for this TTC thingy! lol

Quoting Ch!nga_La_Tuya :-):“ Nope. I haven't yet.”

Just wondering. She is 17 ttc with no children, so I thought damn..wonder what she deals with!?

Oh nope. No one has said anything yet but also maybe they haven't really looked at my age? But IDK I've been a member for over a year so I would think everyone knows how old I am. There's also the difference that she was trying to get an attitude with everyone and she's probably not graduated but I'm graduated already and such.

lol just posting to make this my 2000th post! hehe

Let's put it like this better. We aren't "trying" but we aren't "not trying" I guess you could say. We didn't plan Ana but we didn't prevent her either. We just thought that he couldn't have kids so we didn't use protection and it was 2 years before i got pregnant with her. And I don't really want ana and her siblings to be too far apart in age so I figure if it takes as long as it did the first time they will be O.K in difference and I will be 20 when the second is born or 21

Quoting Ch!nga_La_Tuya :-):“ Let's put it like this better. We aren't "trying" but we aren't "not trying" I guess you could say. We ... [snip!] ... if it takes as long as it did the first time they will be O.K in difference and I will be 20 when the second is born or 21”

Never know. It took almost 3 yrs. between the baby I lost in 05 and this pregnancy. Before as soon as I stopped taking bc I got pregnant. I think it's about God's timing. I needed to heal the death of my son and I think that's why it took almost 3 years this time.

Quoting Ryan's mom & preg.:“ Never know. It took almost 3 yrs. between the baby I lost in 05 and this pregnancy. Before as soon as ... [snip!] ... I think it's about God's timing. I needed to heal the death of my son and I think that's why it took almost 3 years this time.”

Yeah I'm sorry bout your loss though. But yeah that's why we are just "trying but not" because if it's meant to happen it will if not then it won't kinda thing.

Quoting Ch!nga_La_Tuya :-):“ Oh nope. No one has said anything yet but also maybe they haven't really looked at my age? But IDK I've ... [snip!] ... that she was trying to get an attitude with everyone and she's probably not graduated but I'm graduated already and such.”

I saw your age and didn't think there was a damn thing wrong with it, you know what you are getting yourself into.. 

.. and honestly I don't think that girl is even married...

Damn another one missed 

Quoting Green~Olive~Princess:“ I saw your age and didn't think there was a damn thing wrong with it, you know what you are getting yourself into..  .. and honestly I don't think that girl is even married...”

So do you think it is wrong for the op to be 17 and ttc. ? I didn't read any of your prev. post if you had any.

Quoting Ryan's mom & preg.:“ So do you think it is wrong for the op to be 17 and ttc. ? I didn't read any of your prev. post if you had any.”

I'm not sure.. at first I thought it was wrong.. but then i thought I suppose if I was that young and lost a baby I'd want to try again too no matter what ..

But then again EVERYTHING happens FOR a REASON.. iDK

I just didn't have a problem with an 18 yr old with a child already, cause she knows what she is getting herself into (beings she already has a child, engaged,done with school ect  ..

Quoting J&LsMommy:“ I agree 100% it makes me sad too and I don't think it's anything to laugh at. I told that to the other ... [snip!] ... then there's not going to be a way to befriend her. She only going to get defensive and ignore everything you've got to say.”

You are very right....andof course she will get defensive... but only b/c people have not been very nice with their wording...

Tid Bit put it nicely....She wasn't too harsh and sounded sincere about her concerns...

Quoting Michele Ann:“ MAN! I'm pissy I missed yet another 17 and TTC thread. GEEEZZZ. ”

 
This is exactly what I was talking about....

Quoting Green~Olive~Princess:“ I'm not sure.. at first I thought it was wrong.. but then i thought I suppose if I was that young and ... [snip!] ... already, cause she knows what she is getting herself into (beings she already has a child, engaged,done with school ect  ..”

Yeah that was the point that I was also going to make is that people probably don't say anything sincec I already know what to expect with the pregnancy and raising a baby as far as how to do it and knowing about how much money it really takes.