second trimester abortion

I am scheduled for an abortion Saturday. I will be 15 weeks. I do not want to explain why me and my husband have come to this decision, I am just looking for support. Even though I did not want this baby when I got a bfp, I am very upset about this. I haven't told any friends or family what has happened and my husband is 4 hours away at work. I am at home alone with my toddler and I just feel very lost. In a way I am relieved I will not have to carry the worry I've had on my shoulders and I know I can always try to conceive again. But I don't know I feel bad for this baby, I love this baby.

It's not an easy decision but a necessary one sometimes. If it's what's best for you and your family, you'll get through it. Best in your recovery.

I'm sorry you're having to go through this... I know it will take a toll on you emotionally. Maybe look into some counceling for afterwards if you need it.

I just PMed you, but i'm sorry its came to this   I hope everything goes good and you will feel at ease afterwards!! *hugs*

I am sorry you are in a tough spot, hope it all works out for the best for you and your family  

Quoting WeenieMachine:" It's not an easy decision but a necessary one sometimes. If it's what's best for you and your family, you'll get through it. Best in your recovery."

 

I had one at 12 weeks. I tore me up to think about..so i didn't. I got through it, and have moved on with such ease.

I wish the best for you guys, sorry hun   .

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. I know it's an extremely hard decision to make. I hope everything goes smoothly <3

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So sorry you're going through this honey! Sometimes life just hits us with the rottenest smurf.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Just know that what you're doing is for the right reason for you and your family right now. Of course it is going to be hard, but ultimately in the end if this is what you have decided is best then you will get through it. Good luck in your recovery.

Im really, really sorry. I know that place.

I'm sorry you are faced with this decision.

Best wishes

I'm sorry you're having to go through this, but you made the best decision for your family and that's all that matters. Have you thought about talking to someone afterwards just incase, to help you get through it?