Quoting Live life, cherish moment:" I was raped at 14 and kept my baby she's now 4 I'm 18. If you want anyone to talk to I'm here. <3 good luck."
Wow!! i have great respect to you and the girl who posted this!! I can't imagine going through this or having to deal with that decision!! You both are extremly strong and should be proud of yourselves for getting through this.
As for advice... I would say just do what you feel is right. I'm not sure i would know how to handle this either. Have you talked to anyone other then your mom like a therapist or something? That might help or they might be able to help give you advice on how to handle it. Either way i support whatever you chose. And you are extremly brave!! Good luck!