re: Deffinetly Scared..15 and pregnant.

I was 17 when i got pregnant i just now turned 18 and my baby is born june 25th well shes due anyways! U dont half to look up ways on how to take care of a baby when u have the baby your mommy insticts will kick in! It dosent matter about your age its how you raise it! & Keep it  

Quoting LisaTrisler:" I was 17 when i got pregnant i just now turned 18 and my baby is born june 25th well shes due anyways! ... [snip!] ... when u have the baby your mommy insticts will kick in! It dosent matter about your age its how you raise it! & Keep it  "

Ok, wait. Cool for you and all but you don't have to look up how to take care of your baby? Then why are you here? Everyone has questions, instinct or not.

I had a baby at 14 and three months later turned 15 ii was scared too .
My mom & brother wanted to have an abortion but that wasn't an option .
Once your baby is born your m

I had a baby at 14 and three months later turned 15 ii was scared too .
My mom & brother wanted to have an abortion but that wasn't an option .
Once your baby is born your mom will change . When my mom saw my baby been born she regretted saying the word abortion. Continue going to school and get a part time job . That'll help you . Just surround yourself that people that will support you and your dission . Good luck (:

Let me tell a little story... When i was 16 I broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated on me. I then found out 2 weeks later i was pregnant. I told him and he asked me to marry him! I was too scared to do that so i refused but i did say that we would try to work it out. My family hated him and everything he was. I had family and friends talk smurf about me being pregnant saying Im never gonna amount to anything. A teacher told me, "Teenage mothers have low self-esteem and will not make it far." When i was about 6 months pregnant I found out the girl my boyfriend had cheated on me with was also pregnant due one month after me with a girl. I left him and he went back to her. I was so upset but I then decided that I wasnt going to give up... went to local social services and asked them to help me with programs for me to get educated on raising a child. I got a job and I continued to go to school. I had my son during the summer of my Junior and Senior year. I went back to school and I never let anybody ruin me... I hated what they said. I hated their opinions.... But most of all i hated their attitudes and judgements. When i graduated i graduated with honors and i went to college. I have a degree in early childhood education and also a degree in cosmotology! Being a young mom is not easy and your right thing happen for a reason and your not to sure why at the time but I realized that if i wouldnt have got pregnant i would probably have ended up an alcohol and a druggy because the college i wanted to go to is a huge party school... Stay strong and your local woman's resource center give awesome training on how to be a parent as well as classes that fit your life style like budgeting for a baby... And how to write a resume! Good Luck I really wish you the best! Stay strong and believe in yourself!

yesterday my mom blew up and now.... all i have is two choices and she threatened me. 1. i go to indiana quietly and leave my fiance and my whole other half of the family here or 2. She can call my probation officer and said that i stole her car which i didn't! and she'll get me locked up and the baby to go to the state so her friend can have it. Just i can't fight her cuz then i get locked up for fake issues and if i don't i'm leaving my love, my life, and my help......

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" Ok, wait. Cool for you and all but you don't have to look up how to take care of your baby? Then why are you here? Everyone has questions, instinct or not."

I was never telling her not to look up information i was telling her she didnt half to cause usually the instincts just kick in! Im 8 and me myself i have unanswered questions so i look them up, Never would i ever not want her to get all the help she can by any meanings, sorry to make it sound like I didnt want her to do what she wanted.

Quoting LisaTrisler:" I was never telling her not to look up information i was telling her she didnt half to cause usually ... [snip!] ... not want her to get all the help she can by any meanings, sorry to make it sound like I didnt want her to do what she wanted."

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stay in school and get a job. also find some support teen mom group to talk to u and dont be afaird to ask for help

Quoting Kay Amore:" stay in school and get a job. also find some support teen mom group to talk to u and dont be afaird to ask for help"

thank you!