Inconsiderate, selfish smurf.

My boyfriend doesn't ask about my student teaching.
He doesn't text me in the mornings to say "Good morning."
He bitches at me when I don't text him.
He bitches if I do something all day and don't smurfing jump to text him back.
He's always smurfing bitching at me for one reason or another.

Lately he doesn't text me unless he feels like it, but oh, smurf me if I don't text him!

I tell him "You know, for once you could actually text me in the morning when you wake up, goober!" Since he NEVER does.

He said he would.

Well. It is 530 pm.

He has not texted me all day. All smurfing day. I didn't go to my students overnight last night because I was supposed to go to my boyfriends house today and see him. Last week my boyfriend went snowboarding and didn't smurfing text me all smurfing day but oh SmUrf ME when I was busy and didn't text him at the overnight we had at the school because I was you know, busy? Helping my students? Or when I'm at school and can't text him back right smurfing away because IM SmUrfING TEACHING. (Not that he supports my teaching anysmurfingways).

But he said he would text me in the morning. He said I could come over this weekend. Well... it's 530, he never texted me this morning, I have not a damn clue where he is, he hasn't been on facebook all day, hasn't texted me back when I asked if I was coming over, if he was up, if he planned on talking to me... well, nothing. Anything. At all. So. Cheers to another weekend of not seeing him because he can't pick up the phone and text me back or call me back to say where he is.

He is probably snowboarding, but hey, he never told me he was going to go. In fact I just got a text from a friend saying "Yeah he probably went snowboarding." Thanks, you dick, I asked for you to text when you woke up since "You were probably going to sleep in" and you go snowboarding, and don't tell me.

Thanks dick. Thanks a lot.


I should have spent the night with my students at their overnight, like they asked me to.

ditch the loser hunny

Quoting La~La:" ditch the loser hunny"

!!

& this is the reason I am single......

Sounds like you need to get rid of him asap!

If a guy doesn't text me all day, I text him and say it's over. lol
It's happened a couple times actually. One of them actually got the GALL to get mad at me for it.  
I can understand if something happens where they really can't text you, but you usually can tell which guys are sincere and which ones aren't.

Quoting La~La:" ditch the loser hunny"

I'm so close to doing it... I absolutely adore him and his son but he is SO DAMN JEALOUS of the person who is training me to teach, that he has become a new person lately. It's like, he is so jealous that he is pushing me away. I don't get it. It is seriously hurting me and to be waiting all day for this is crap. I could have been at the overnight last night, and I turned down my students last night to spend time with my SO today because I knew I would be too tired if I stayed up all night with them. Now I feel like an ass because the kiddos really wanted me there. So here goes another high stress week of standardized testing, I would have liked to see him. But oh well... too smurfing late now because he will go home, be all tired from snowboarding, and I dont want to hang out with someone who is only thinking of himself.

I almost feel like calling up my friend and going out with her, and when my SO bitches like I know he will, say SmUrf YOU, this is what you get for not calling me all smurfing day when we had plans. You are not the only person in my life!

I'll give him the benefit of the doubt for now... but if he comes back with some smurffy smurfing excuse, "Oh I went snowboarding and couldn't text you...."



Hell will break loose.

I think he needs a swift kick to the curb. It wasn't just the not texting that gets me, but the fact that you said several times that he doesn't support you in your teaching, which is obviously something you love and are passionate about, and is something he should be proud of you for doing.

Quoting Because we fell in Love:" I think he needs a swift kick to the curb. It wasn't just the not texting that gets me, but the fact ... [snip!] ... teaching, which is obviously something you love and are passionate about, and is something he should be proud of you for doing."

Yeah, he thinks I talk about teaching a lot.... too much. I love my kiddos and am excited to talk about my day and I dunno, he just think my non-traditional school is weird. My kiddos text me a lot and I'm glad they do (and it is TOTALLY acceptable in that school for kiddos to text their teachers) and he finds it weird. It just hurts me when he says stuff like that.

So I've just resorted to not talking about teaching anymore. Which sucks. The teacher I work with is moving and I became really upset because I think hes a kickass guy and my kids were REALLY upset, and he said "I dont know why you are emo about it." He is all jealous of the guy... but dude.... this guy is married. And I dont cheat.


Grrrr. Sucks.

But you shouldn't have to "not talk" about something you love so much. I think you should have a good, long talk with him about all of your concerns. If nothing changes, then seriously consider leaving. You should never have to change yourself for someone.

He went to the museum. And saw an IMAX movie.

I texted him after him not being on FB all day or texting me and said "Okay now you are just worrying me" and he said "Im sorry." I said "?" and he said "For worrying you." I asked where he was, he said at the smurfing museum and IMAX theater with his son.

I said I thought that we were supposed to hang out tonight, and was going to go over there after going home from the hospital today but since he decided not to call or text back all day, that didn't happen. He said "Why were you at the hospital?"

Call me a smurfing bitch, but I am going to bed now. I am not texting back now or calling him back about why the family was at the hospital. My nephew was hit in the head with a baseball bat and needed stitches, nothing major but enough to worry us. Does he need to know that? Can he sit there and worry for a bit, as I smurfing worried all day wondering where the smurf he was because he is an inconsiderate piece of smurf?

Damn smurfing straight. So yes... he has no idea why we were in the hospital. Maybe he can worry for a bit, and I am going to get a good nights sleep for once. I slept like smurf like last night and Im sick of waking up to smurf like my boyfriend not calling me all day because he's a smurfing royal DICK.

This guy sounds like a douche.

I'm sorry, hon, but really. Everything you've said in this thread makes him sound like a jerk. Especially where he says you're being "emo" when you get upset about something. That's completely dismissing your feelings and belittling you. Not acceptable.

Quoting kravenscookiejar:" This guy sounds like a douche. I'm sorry, hon, but really. Everything you've said in this thread makes ... [snip!] ... being "emo" when you get upset about something. That's completely dismissing your feelings and belittling you. Not acceptable."

  I agree why would you put up with that! NO ONE SHOULD PUT UP WITH THAT! And he sounds very immature. I don't understand how you say you adore him but yet it sounds like he treats you like smurf. Open your eyes and realize you can do better. Never settle for less than that! Sorry I am being so blunt but sometimes the truth hurts!

Ugh this sucks, we have SUCH an amazing history and it's like he is throwing it all away. I don't know what his issue is. He is seriously stuck in a smurffy job and he's taking that out on me... I feel bad for him, I feel bad that his piece of smurf Baby's Momma is a smurf and can't help him out, I feel bad his parents don't help him, but I TRY TO HELP HIM and he doesn't see that.

I just don't get it, I think he is really depressed, well I KNOW he is depressed and every time he vents to me I tell him I will help him with his son. I tell him I will do all I can to help him. I supported him in his major change. I hold back on telling him what I feel about his sons mom, but it would help a lot if that bitch paid child support. It would help if his parents supported him. I think his son needs to be on meds. I think he thinks I'm against him, and I'm not. It's frustrating and I just hate being hurt because I know how amazing our history is, he knows how amazing our history is and we have been through a lot. We are so in tune with each other it's scary. We can pick up the phone to answer each others calls or text each other without hearing the phone ring or text, just because we have that "feeling." We can speak without talking to each other. We have a great effect on each other because we have such an impact on each others lives and kids. But it's like he's almost throwing that away, and for what? Who the hell knows.

It sucks, and it hurts. All I know is I love my kiddos at school, I loooooove my job, and it's going to suck when student teaching ends because I probably won't get a job there because of the budget. I will truly cry to leave those kids. But I have made such an impact on them and I wish he could see that... sometimes he says the school I'm in is too nontraditional and doesnt get how I interact with the kiddos (for example, I text my kids a lot if they want to talk or have a problem. If kids need me, they can call me. This is the norm of the school, and if I didn't allow them to text or call it would really cause a rift in my relationship with them) and he thinks that is overstepping normal boundaries. But to hear my kids say I am an amazing teacher and to walk down the halls and hear someone yell "LOVE YOU JENN!" (we are called by our first names) is an AMAZING feeling and I wish he saw that.

Blah.