re: Question about nude pictures..

I would break his phone!

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ss:</b>" It's not her fault. And we don't talk to her anymore. But I get what you guys saying. It's over. It might now be cheating, but it hurts just as bad. "</blockquote>


Yea youre right she didnt know . But im saying IF a girl sent them on purpose. Stay strong Mama, do what is best for you and your fam  ::hugs::

Quoting I am that bitch:" I would break his phone!"

Oh, believe me, I wanted to, still do.

Quoting *G-DizzlesMama*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ss:</b>" It's not her fault. And we don't talk to her ... [snip!] ... didnt know . But im saying IF a girl sent them on purpose. Stay strong Mama, do what is best for you and your fam  ::hugs::"

Yeah, i understand. And I'm trying   Thanks!

I'm not gonna lie I found nudie pics of a girl that was an uber slut in my fiance at the times email and I created a fake facebook, added majority of her friends that would add me back& posted all of them on there tagging her in them...also submitted them to isanyoneup.com, no bitch smurfs with my man...and I slapped his inappreciative ass in the face for it lol tcb girl aka "take care of business!"

I agree with pretty much everyone else.

If it was someOne he knows or talks to personally, I'd be pissed!
But if it was just a random girl he found a picture of or a porn star I'd not think much of it.

I don't care if we know the girls or if they are random from the internet. That's not acceptable in my book, especially in marriage, it's disrespect. Unfortunately I can't kick him to the curb or just leave. I have to do this mutually, we have a child and one on the way. So I have to do this as civil as possible. I'd rather not get smurfed over somehow.

Quoting ♥ss:" I don't care if we know the girls or if they are random from the internet. That's not acceptable in my ... [snip!] ... we have a child and one on the way. So I have to do this as civil as possible. I'd rather not get smurfed over somehow. "

Do you have friends or family you coudl stay with during the transition? kudos to you for being so level headed about it.  

His family, which won't work. The closest family member I have is my "sister"(step) who is 3 hours away in California.

i would be willing to laugh if it was a forward or somthing but since these are girls you actually know that shows that you are being played. the fact that he didn't even try to delete them shows either he sucks at hiding things or he doesn't care if you find out which is disrespectful in and of itself

Quoting ♥ss:" His family, which won't work. The closest family member I have is my "sister"(step) who is 3 hours away in California."

oh poo   maybe you could talk to a SW that could help you apply to get some house/food assistance so you could get your own place for you and your kiddos?

Ladies, I understand where you are coming from and I don't disagree. One option is to leave. However, if you are willing to get help through counseling and BOTH of you work to make the relationship stronger and better, is it not worth trying before you break up your kids family? Divorce and breakups have become so common that they are not a first option. That is why our society is failing miserably!
I have been where he is. Granted it's not right and I made decisions at the time that I am not proud of, there are always two sides to every coin. I suggest that you find a counselor. Make an appointment and invite him to join you. Talk about it there. I believe that there is more going on, on both sides, than just naked pics and jealousy.