re: Question about nude pictures..

yeah if he knew the girl that would be the end of the story for us

You gave him his chance and he blew it. Now he can pack his smurf and go seeing as he doesn't want to pull his head out and it isnt the first time he has had nudie pics of girls.

If it was a porn star or something then nah. i wouldn't be upset.

Quoting WeenieMachine:" Well, I don't make idle threats so if I told him before that I'd be gone if he did it again, then I'd stand by that and peace the smurf out."

^^What she said.

He'd have to go. IDGAF about random ass porn, but an aquaintance? Hell no. Double hell no. Cause that brings up the whole question of how did he get it, are they speaking inappropriately when I'm not there, etc.

A girl he knew? and you had already given him a chance? Id leave. He is probably physically cheating with her as well. I consider sending nude pictures cheating. I would be devastated. I wouldnt have deleted them though, he probably will just get more sadly. Deleting them wont make a difference  

Quoting Little MerMeemz:" He'd have to go. IDGAF about random ass porn, but an aquaintance? Hell no. Double hell no. Cause that ... [snip!] ... no. Cause that brings up the whole question of how did he get it, are they speaking inappropriately when I'm not there, etc."

Exactly. Way too much deceit, disrespect for me to be able to stay with him.

Quoting WeenieMachine:" Well, I don't make idle threats so if I told him before that I'd be gone if he did it again, then I'd stand by that and peace the smurf out."

This exactly. We would be over and done with.

A picture of some random actress on his computer: okay. On his phone, which he carries with him all of the time? No. Because that would show a level of obsession that isn't acceptable.

A naked picture of someone he knew in person, on computer/phone/in his wallet: he better smurfing call her up and they both better run like hell...

Quoting ♥ss:" Last night I was on my husbands phone and found nude pictures of girls, one I knew and a random video..He ... [snip!] ... you'll see. How would you feel and what would you do? I already know I want to do, but I want to hear from you ladies also. "

You already gave the warning, now you have to follow through; otherwise you essentially just gave him permission to walk on you. I'd be out of there.

Quoting IMHO:" A picture of some random actress on his computer: okay. On his phone, which he carries with him all of ... [snip!] ... someone he knew in person, on computer/phone/in his wallet: he better smurfing call her up and they both better run like hell..."

    

especially for the third time, sorry mama!

Quoting IMHO:" A picture of some random actress on his computer: okay. On his phone, which he carries with him all of ... [snip!] ... someone he knew in person, on computer/phone/in his wallet: he better smurfing call her up and they both better run like hell..."

i don't think its a big deal to have an actress on his PHONE. Maybe that's just me though.

I don't think there is anything wrong with it.

but when its personal pictures for girls that send him pictures -- then yeah.

hahaha. it's not even funny how over we would be. gtfo, bro.

He was warned and still didnt give a smurf. He obviously doesnt believe you'll follow through so prove him wrong. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. Tell him pack his smurf and kick rocks rocks. I'm sorry it won't change

his ass would be out the door, porn is one thing but pics of people you know, wow, what disrespectful people.