Quoting Lanni:" I'm glad that I'm not the only one who sees it like that. I mean, I'm well aware my son didn't make ... [snip!] ... why she told us, so we could be prepared in case they do choose that name and so she can tell them how SO and I feel about it."
Quoting Love my babygirl:" Well at least they will know how you feel. If they still go about naming him that there is not much ... [snip!] ... man in your heart and his name will always be James no one can take the away, regardless if they have the same name or not."
Quoting Lanni:" I agree, I think I'm just thinking so irrationally. I know I'm entirely resentful of them, and that ... [snip!] ... I do feel bad about. It's not their fault that James was sick and I had to make that choice, but I can't help but be jealous. "
Quoting Love my babygirl:" It's normal, you definitely have a right to have the feelings you do."
Quoting Lanni:" Thanks, I'm someone who gets really freaked out by what people think, so I always try to not come off ... [snip!] ... my mom, SO, MIL and my bestfriend or I have no idea where I'd be right now. And again, thank you for your kind words <3 "not a problem at all hun! Have you tried writting a journal at least until you find a counsellor that clicks with you?
Quoting Lanni:" Well thank you, I'm glad to know it's normal and it's not me just being over emotional. "
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" not a problem at all hun! Have you tried writting a journal at least until you find a counsellor that clicks with you?"
Quoting Love my babygirl:" Your welcome, if you ever need someone to talk too you can always PM me. "