re: ♥ 2008 Dec. Desperate Housewives Club ♥

Quoting Maggiekins:“ Good! Get some well-needed sleep. Kirt can wait. It's not like he does enough to make your life easier, so that you CAN have more free time to spend with him.”

I had a sex dream about him last night. I was so disappointed when I woke up and realized it was just a dream.

Quoting Jen & Chunky Cheekers:“ I had a sex dream about him last night. I was so disappointed when I woke up and realized it was just a dream.”

  Sex dreams are such a tease. I had them all of the time while I was pregnant.

Quoting Jen & Chunky Cheekers:“ I saw my ob/gyn today but to discuss my migraines (that I get due to wonderful AF). He's putting me back ... [snip!] ... Kirt will be pissy that I'm not spending any time with him tonight but oh well...my priorities are the kid, then me, then him.”

That's good. You should definitely put him last.....he does to you....

Quoting &hearts Jules:“ Angela!! I got your kid's letter in the mail!!! Tell the kids I said thank you!! and that I think it's soo adorable and cute!!! Did Wyatt spell is name on his own?! ;)”

You're welcome.  

Quoting Jen & Chunky Cheekers:“ I had a sex dream about him last night. I was so disappointed when I woke up and realized it was just a dream.”

  I also don't understand why he wants you to spend time with you. It seems all he does it make you feel bad about yourself. It's like he's passively bullying you. That is sad. You deserve so much better.

I got this email forward the other day and I really liked it. Thought I'd share...if it works:

ATTITUDE‏

READ THIS...LET IT REALLY SINK IN...THEN CHOOSE...

John is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good moodand always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, 'If I were any better, I would be twins!'

He was a natural motivator.

If an employee was having a bad day, John was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up and asked him, 'I don't get it!
You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?'

He replied, 'Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you havetwo choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or.....
you can choose to be in a bad mood.

I choose to be in a good mood.'

Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or...
I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.

Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose toaccept their complaining or...

I can point out the positive side oflife. I choose the positive side of life.

'Yeah, right, it's not that easy,' I protested.

'Yes, it is,' he said. 'Life is all about choices. When you cut awayall the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you reactto situations. You choose how people affect your mood..
You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line...
It's your choice how you live your life.'

I reflected on what he said. Soon hereafter, I left the Tower Industryto start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought abouthim when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

Several years later, I heard that he was involved in a seriousaccident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.

After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, he wasreleased from the hospital with rods placed in his back.

I saw him about six months after the accident.

When I asked him how he was, he replied, 'If I were any better,I'd be twins...Wanna see my scars?'

I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place.

'The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being ofmy soon-to-be born daughter,' he replied. 'Then, as I lay on the ground,I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or.....I couldchoose to die.

I chose to live.'

'Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?' I asked.

He continued, '..the paramedics were great.

They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a deadman'.I knew I needed to take action..'

'What did you do?' I asked.

'Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me,'said John. 'She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes, I replied.'
The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Gravity'.'

Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live.Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.'

He lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude...

I learned from him that every day we have the
choice to live fully.

Attitude, after all, is everything.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.' Matthew 6:34.

After all,today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.

You have two choices now:

01. Delete this
02. Forward it to the people you care about.

You know the choice I made.

Whoa, that's long!   It's a good read though.

Dh was home and is gone already. I'm a single parent all day today. He has a work banquet to go to. The 3 or 4 kids are watching Madagascar 2 and I have to clean up supper now, and empty the dishwasher. I knew you'd want to all know about that!   Happy weekend!

Quoting Maggiekins:“ nope. on the infant's tylenol box it says "under 2: consult a doctor"”

really??? on ours (canadian??) it tells us by weight and age. But we have tylenol infant and tylenol for kids. totally different.

I'm soooooooooo glad it's friday! not that it matters this weekend. dh had thurs and today off - plus he gets this weekend (sat and sun) off too, so 4 days with me. woohoo. my kitchen is gutted. I took down half the tiles and gave up. it's hard work! i wish DH would get down and dirty and just do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i guess i will be paying someone to do it. *sigh*  

tomorrow my 'floor' guy is coming to rip out our floors and see what's underneath. i am hoping, praying that it's hardwood that he can bring back to life!

k, i need to clean up. actually, maybe i need to go to bed now. it's 11pm and i'm beat!! i went to dinner with 2 friends from university that i graduated with so that was really nice!!!!!!!!!!!! g'nites!

Aimee - - I often have to pay people also to do stuff   We had a fence built last summer and it needed to be treated/stained this summer. I kept asking, begging, then downright nagging Kirt to go with me to get the stuff (my car is at max capacity with car seat, stroller, school stuff) and now it's too late to do it. He's talking about paying someone to do it next year. Honestly, I'd do it myself except I'd need someone to watch Ryder for the entire day. Oh, and we were told about two months ago (when we had the mouse invasion) that there's quite a bit of insulation missing from our attic and that we're probably paying quite a bit more on our heating and cooling bill because but do you think Kirt has one up there to look into it? Nope! I seriously need to find just some general handyman to hire on an hourly rate to help me with stuff like that (I hate attics).

Quoting &hearts Jules:“ really??? on ours (canadian??) it tells us by weight and age. But we have tylenol infant and tylenol for kids. totally different.”

right. I have infant tylenol. And it still doesn't say.

Quoting Jen & Chunky Cheekers:“ Aimee - - I often have to pay people also to do stuff   We had a fence built last summer and it needed ... [snip!] ... I seriously need to find just some general handyman to hire on an hourly rate to help me with stuff like that (I hate attics).”

DH helps people out like that sometimes. too bad you don't live closer.   He's cheap. lol

Quoting Maggiekins:“ Ours is Magic 107.7 or something like that.”

ours is Sunny 99.1. I know that I am late but you all are now getting me in the spirit. I am going to pull out my Christmas CD tonight.

Quoting *Jezlyn's MaMa*:“ It was Jezlyn! She just moves and grooves! I bet that's neat to see her do, especially since she's standing!”

Yes it definitely was not Vanessa. Our child most likely will not even have a chance. DH and I do NOT dance and there is a reason for that, we have not rhythm. lol.

Quoting *Jezlyn's MaMa*:“ You're welcome! It is fantastic! I use it weekly before I go shopping!”

I missed the link to the site can you post it again.