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I understand your feelings, but this was the wrong place to post this. This subforum is for supporting those who have had or are considering abortions, not to vent about them.

Wrong place.

This is the wrong forum.

This is not the place for this post.

And who cares if she had an abortion? That's her decision, not yours. You're not ok with it? Too fckkng bad!

Oh..and just because she's acting like it doesn't bother her..doesn't mean she isn't hurt by it. She might not be..but you never know.

Open your mind lady..your child will thank you.

Abortion is anything but the easy way out. If anyone here is misinformed, it's you dear.

we all are intitled to our own opinions, but if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it. just needed to vent, didnt matter where i posted it as long as i could write out what i felt and see what others had to say about it. and i feel alot better now ;)

Quoting Amira & Layla:" we all are intitled to our own opinions, but if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it. just ... [snip!] ... i posted it as long as i could write out what i felt and see what others had to say about it. and i feel alot better now ;)"

Really? Then why in AS did you tell someone they are sick if they do it and they don't want that blood on their shoulders? Should take your own advice and keep those fingers still if you don't have anything nice to say.

Quoting Me Gusta:" Abortion is anything but the easy way out. If anyone here is misinformed, it's you dear."

i already know this, i had an abortion when i was 16 years old, i was 4-6 weeks along. and i regret it every day since. its a hard thing, and for her to have tooken it so lightly pissed me right off. she was ready to go out and party tonight, didnt care and never cares.

Quoting Amira & Layla:" we all are intitled to our own opinions, but if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it. just ... [snip!] ... i posted it as long as i could write out what i felt and see what others had to say about it. and i feel alot better now ;)"

Actually it does matter where you posted it. Where you posted it is against the rules and you could be banned for it.

So... You hate her because she got pregnant, and it happens whether your careful or not, and she got an abortion because (I'm assuming) she didn't want it... That's y you hate her right now...? and that's y she needs to sort her smurf out?
Hmm maybe you should work through your own issues before you go all judgemental about her. Sorry but I don't understand that all.

Quoting Amira & Layla:" i already know this, i had an abortion when i was 16 years old, i was 4-6 weeks along. and i regret ... [snip!] ... her to have tooken it so lightly pissed me right off. she was ready to go out and party tonight, didnt care and never cares."

Maybe that's her way of coping. Idk her so I can't say for sure. Would you have rather her have kept the baby and neglected it? That would probably have been more likely than adoption.

Quoting Amira & Layla:" i already know this, i had an abortion when i was 16 years old, i was 4-6 weeks along. and i regret ... [snip!] ... her to have tooken it so lightly pissed me right off. she was ready to go out and party tonight, didnt care and never cares."

and that's her. You don't have to feel bad about having an abortion.....

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amira & Layla:</b>" we all are intitled to our own opinions, but if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it. just ... [snip!] ... i posted it as long as i could write out what i felt and see what others had to say about it. and i feel alot better now ;)"</blockquote>




It does matter where it's posted. It was extremely rude to post where you did.

Seems like the majority think you're in the wrong about it. That's what we have to say. If you can't handle it..oh well. There are other places you could go.

And..aren't you being just as insensitive as you think your sister is? Some people handle things differently. For all you know she could be putting on an act to keep from breaking down.

im taking what all your ladies perspectives are in , and you all could be right. im probally just really sensitive about this whole situation, only because she should have learned from me! i want nothing more than for her to not make the same silly mistakes as i did. im her older sister, and for my younger sister to follow into my path just isnt want i want to accept. i just feel strongly about abortions now ever since i got the chance to become pregnant agian, seeing how beautiful and rewarding being pregnant can be. its truly a miracle. i may have sounded stupid and a bitch, but this has just been eating away at me all day. just really botherd me. i feel so bad for her, and mad at the same time. its hard to explain, it really is. but im sure if half you ladies were in my shoes seeing the way it is, im sure half of you would feel the same way as i do at this moment. thanks for all your opinions!