re: PLEASE READ ME before posting in Sexuality!!!
604 postsposted 13th Oct
Quoting Neil & Caleb's Mommy:“ Unless your doc specified it as a no-no, it's perfectly fine up until your water breaks! Yeah! Not always comfy, but a great oppertunity to try new things. Have Fun!”
Yea my husband finds that there were many things that he couldnt do before, but he can do now.. I didnt really want to have sex my first few months, then me and the hubby separated for 2 mo and well i just about jumped his bones while we were in the middle of talking lmao.. haha so yea.
I actually kind of have a question.. Is it normal to want to have sex, feel horny and all, but just the normal sex that was soooo good before isnt enough.. Like needing a helping hand of a vibrator or seomthing to actually make it feel good? Becuase my husband into the all natural thing, and he wont use lube, so I kind of have to make my own, and well thats the only way i can.. Anwyho.. Anwyone with similar story?? Or am i just totally out there on that?
I'm due February 14th (a girl) & live in Flowood, Mississippi
posted 13th Oct
Quoting Mari'sTittyBar:“ Hey everyone! ive got a lil conundrum of sorts lol is it normal to NOT want to be touched some days ... [snip!] ... off just for brushing away a strand of hair in the morning, and others i want him... BAD.. ugh its getting fustrating.. help?”
yea totally there with you.. its like hes gotta be on my schedule.. or no schedule! Oh boy do i feel the same way.. he was like begging me for sex the other day and i was just like ugggghhh but then the next night i wanted to jump his bones and he got frustrated cus he just doesnt understand! So dont feel bad, totally there with you..
I'm due February 14th (a girl) & live in Flowood, Mississippi
1149 postsposted 20th Oct
no cursing? seriously? people are going to do that anyway.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Baton Rouge, Louisiana
posted 27th Oct
Quoting 8baby mama*:“ GIRL IF HES NOT THERE NOW I DONT THINK HE'LL BE THERE LATER!!! IM NOT TRYIN TO SAY TO LEAVE HIM BUT ... [snip!] ... MY BABY TO HAVE A DAD BUT IF WE GONNA FIGHT ALOT THERE AINT NO POINT OF BEING TOETHER !!!WELL I HOPE YA WORK THINGS OUT !!!!”
Im really glad I read yalls things about the baby daddy drama.. it makes me feel alot better.. im having alot of trouble with mine too.. but i just cant leave cause i love him alot but then i also think hes not worth losing my little girl over either.. but then its like what else are we suppose to do??
I'm due February 1st (a girl) & live in West Virginia
posted 27th Oct
Quoting phatt_lipzz:“ HI my name is Kristina and i am 29 weeks with twins....my boyfriend is scured to have sex with me he ... [snip!] ... then it is ok....how can i reinsure him that it is ok for us to have sex and that he is not hurting me or the babys?????”
My boyfriends the same as yours but im only 27 weeks with one baby and he flips out.. i cant figure out how to get it through his thick head either.. guys are too stubborn and hard headed.. lol
I'm due February 1st (a girl) & live in West Virginia
posted 27th Oct
Quoting sem84:“ hey everyone. well my problem is not our sex life by any means i just don't feel like i am attractive ... [snip!] ... says i look fine to him, but do ya'll have any advice that would help me feel a little more attractive rather than a big cow?”
aww.. i kinda felt like that when i first started getting big but now im 27 weeks and i feel okay with my body again.. i guess i just thought about it and realized im getting fat for a good reason and it willgo away in a couple more months..
I'm due February 1st (a girl) & live in West Virginia
124 postsposted 4th Nov
didn't know about the cursing rule either... my bad....
this is such a great forum though!! and I'm excited to read and get some questions answered!!!
quotethis is such a great forum though!! and I'm excited to read and get some questions answered!!!
I'm due February 2nd (a boy) & live in Billings, Montana
120 postsposted 6th Nov
At first i didn't ever want to have sex i was sick all the time and just wanted to sleep. And now I'm at 28 weeks i cant get enough of it. My poor husband works all day and then come home to me. Its kind of funny because I'm huge and off balance but I'm always in the mood and wanting to experiment. Must be the hormones lol. Is it weird that I'm SO into sex lately? Or is this normal?
I'm due January 28th (a girl) & live in Ohio
posted 6th Nov
Quoting Mrs. Valerie Roberts:“ ummm is it just me or are there others out there? i am horny and ready to go at all times. but i feel ... [snip!] ... weeks along, is there something that we dont know that could help? Any advise is very much appreciated... THANKS A BUNCH ”definently if you both lay on your side or if only you do and he is behind you on his knees lol. Pretty comfy and works well ;)
I'm due January 28th (a girl) & live in Ohio
4 postsposted 7th Nov
Quoting hjkl:“ Im going through the same thing too. Me and my husband was just sexually active and ever since i got ... [snip!] ... there is no other, and its not an offensive word} or just buy a sex toy.... I mean it always helps.!!! Hope this helps!!!”
I'm at 32 weeks and it seems like the same thing for me. Hubby has worried he's going to hurt the baby, feels like maybe baby is "aware" of what's going on, and also worried he's going to hurt me in some way since I'm so big. Of course I've reassured him everything's ok...but he still seems to be avoiding me sexually. It's a little frustrating, although not so much now because I don't really feel up to it very much. He also seems distant just in general, really distracted...so sometimes I feel ignored. But we've talked about it a little, I think he's just really worried that everything will work out, plus he's getting ready to start a new job, so he is worried about money and baby and me and everything. I think he's just feeling the weight of being a new father and all. So it's not necessarily us prego gals that are the problem...I think the men sometimes have a hard time adjusting to pregnancy and maybe worry more about hurting us than we do...plus we are so emotional and moody that any little thing can get blown out of proportion and if we don't always get the attention we want it can feel devastating. So hang in there, and like hjkl said, grab your sex toy and take care of yourself! It does help! And your man will prob just need some time to adjust.
I'm due January 1st (a boy) & live in Anchor Point, Alaska
posted 7th Nov
Quoting Jahmel "Nita&Mal":“ Hello everyone. I have read everyones post and will respect everyone. I have a question: Well, as of ... [snip!] ... we did it, we used some lubrication, which helps somewhat, but not alot. Does anyone else go through this when having sex?”
I know I have! Everything just feels "tight" down there and sometimes get pain with sex too. I had problems with that before I got pregnant, my gyno referred me to a gal who does physical therapy but specifically pelvic-related problems. I went to her and she said that because I have really flexible joints, compared to the average person, that my hip joints were really loose and so that made other muscles in my pelvis try to tighten up in response to hold everything stable. So those muscles were making it tight in the vagina and aggravating the nerves and stuff. So she gave me excersizes to do to tighten the hip joints to releive then tension in the pelvic area. Also got an Rx for lidocaine to use vaginally to help sex be more comfortable in the meantime. It did seem to work for me to do those excersizes. But I stopped doing them, and now am 32 weeks preggo, and it is more uncomfortable than ever. I'm just living with it until I give birth and then see how I feel--it may all change. But lube can be helpful, also using ice afterwards, helps any inflammation go down. My physical therapy gal was very adamant about the ice---use it EVERY time you have sex, and even had me put it on a couple times a day for the first few weeks. Just to help the nerves not to be all inflamed. Anyway, good luck to you, I hope it gets better!
I'm due January 1st (a boy) & live in Anchor Point, Alaska
posted 7th Nov
Quoting Mrs.Shopoff1:“ At first i didn't ever want to have sex i was sick all the time and just wanted to sleep. And now I'm at 28 weeks i cant get enough of it. My poor husband works all day and then come home to me. Its kind of funny because I'm huge and off balance but I'm always in the mood and wanting to experiment. Must be the hormones lol. Is it weird that I'm SO into sex lately? Or is this normal?Definitely normal...I know I went through a couple months of that...just wanting it all the time and hubby was kind of not so interested. Made it a little frustrating for awhile b/c I'd want it and he didn't...but now it's swung the opposite way and he's giving me the space. I'm too tired and achy to really feel up to it!
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I'm due January 1st (a boy) & live in Anchor Point, Alaska
posted 7th Nov
Quoting Colleeneverett:“ Yea my husband finds that there were many things that he couldnt do before, but he can do now.. I ... [snip!] ... make my own, and well thats the only way i can.. Anwyho.. Anwyone with similar story?? Or am i just totally out there on that?”
Yeah same thing with me...I haven't orgasmed in a couple months I think because I just don't get warmed up fast enough, and it takes longer to get there, and then hubby can't hold out long enough for me. He really tries though! He's good at waiting, can hold off for like 30-45 min but I'm still not there...also feel more dry down there too, and have to lube up for it to be comfortable. He will tell me that I feel plenty wet but I don't feel like it's enough...I think what he think is the "I'm wet and ready to go" is actually just the normal pregnancy wetness that is happening all the time. Maybe it doesn't make good lube, idk. Anyway, I think it must just be hormones and body changes and all, and I'm just hoping it will all be better again after baby's born. I've heard that breastfeeding can cause vaginal dryness though, so will have lube handy1
I'm due January 1st (a boy) & live in Anchor Point, Alaska
26 postsposted 4 days ago
Quoting Mara:“ Hi everyone! So I've been thinking about how much sex (and relationships) are a part of pregnancy, and ... [snip!] ... jumping into the nitty gritty issues and questions about sexuality and I'll do my best to answer those questions that I can.”
I don't cuss I just use other words instead of the F word I say don't do that butterfinger..
posted yesterday
It seems like me and my husband have not had sex in the past couple of months. He has issues with having sex knowing that they is a baby going to come out of there. I try to tell him everything is fine but it does not seem to help. any suggestions on how i can have him overcome this?
quoteI'm due February 14th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Oregon
