re: PLEASE READ ME before posting in Sexuality!!!

Quoting phatt_lipzz:" HI my name is Kristina and i am 29 weeks with twins....my boyfriend is scured to have sex with me he ... [snip!] ... then it is ok....how can i reinsure him that it is ok for us to have sex and that he is not hurting me or the babys?????"

Quoting Mara:" Hi everyone! So I've been thinking about how much sex (and relationships) are a part of pregnancy, and ... [snip!] ... jumping into the nitty gritty issues and questions about sexuality and I'll do my best to answer those questions that I can."

Even before pregnancy was a part of our life my boyfriend has veryyy low sex drive. its frustrating when i want it every night! he is 22 and so am i. i dont understand what his deal is. he doesnt even masturbate. its ridiculous. could it be less sensational for him than for the average male or what??? he never initiates it and he doesnt really know how to do all touchy feely emotional stuff. he will wake up in the middle of the night after a week of no sex and we will be having unconsious sex (basically). because he waits til hes deprived and so i never get anything out of it. he was also molested by an older cousin growing up... im thinkng that could relate maybe. i know hes not gay. whats going on????