re: PLEASE READ ME before posting in Sexuality!!!

posted 11th Apr '12
i am 19 and married, and my husband wants sex nonstop, and even if i say no, he still makes me do it anyways. he gets mad because i barely ever want to have sex, and he always tries to get me to give him oral, but i think the hormones from the pregnancy made me reolize that he has never given me an orgasm, its all about him every time we have sex. he goes at it as fast as he can, then when he's done... its done too... i think thats why i have no interest in sex.. what should i do?
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I'm due September 19th (a girl) & live in Winton, California
posted 19th Apr '12
what i cant post porn!!! my day is ruined....
quotesmurfs?
I live in New York
posted 19th Apr '12
what i cant post porn!!! my day is ruined....
quotesmurfs?
I live in New York
posted 22nd Apr '12
Quoting Amber1993:" i am 19 and married, and my husband wants sex nonstop, and even if i say no, he still makes me do it ... [snip!] ... at it as fast as he can, then when he's done... its done too... i think thats why i have no interest in sex.. what should i do?"

never let anybody force you to have sex. I'm 20 and my husband is 21. He always wants it too. But i don't always do it. If he wants it and you don't and he will not give up, tell him to do it himself. Luckily my husband doesn't bother me too much and will wait. The hormones suck, i was horny one week and not another. Now with breastfeeding i hardly am. But if he hasn't hardly given you an orgasm, buy a toy. And like i said don't let him force you. Maybe if he see's you won't always when he wants to and you are using a toy instead of him, he might consider you.

Also, talk to him about it
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Germantown, Ohio
posted 22nd Apr '12
Quoting Jamie's Momma  :" never let anybody force you to have sex. I'm 20 and my husband is 21. He always wants it too. But i ... [snip!] ... you won't always when he wants to and you are using a toy instead of him, he might consider you. Also, talk to him about it"
i have joked around about the subject, and all it does is make him get pissed and say all im saying is he is bad in bed. then he pretty much says its my fault, because he likes going down on girls, and before we started dating, i told him i dont let guys do that, because it makes me uncomfortable, but i guess he just assumed i would get over it. idk, its complicated. if i got a toy, he would just get mad and say "oh, so i dont satisfy you"
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I'm due September 19th (a girl) & live in Winton, California
posted 23rd Apr '12
Quoting Mara:" Hi everyone! So I've been thinking about how much sex (and relationships) are a part of pregnancy, and ... [snip!] ... jumping into the nitty gritty issues and questions about sexuality and I'll do my best to answer those questions that I can."

one night stand is enough for doing pregnancy baby .for my side it take only 1 hour
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I live in Japan
posted 23rd Apr '12
Quoting Paddy Cake:" oops. I didn't read the "no cursing" policy..my apologies for the few words that slipped."
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I live in Japan
posted 23rd Apr '12
Quoting Amber1993:" i have joked around about the subject, and all it does is make him get pissed and say all im saying is ... [snip!] ... assumed i would get over it. idk, its complicated. if i got a toy, he would just get mad and say "oh, so i dont satisfy you""


Well if he says that, then you need to say you never intended for him to feel about it that way. And tell him you wish he wouldn't go so fast and that you want to take more time to enjoy it with him. Don't joke around with him, sit him down and talk to him. Men will be super horny until they are all the way out of puberty which is in their 20's. and even after that some are still very sexual.

Sex is not everything in a relationship, but it can cause problems trust me. So talking now will do good for the future. PM me if you'd like
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Germantown, Ohio
posted 25th Apr '12
Quoting Jamie's Momma  :" Well if he says that, then you need to say you never intended for him to feel about it that way. And ... [snip!] ... in a relationship, but it can cause problems trust me. So talking now will do good for the future. PM me if you'd like"

he is already 28. he still acts like a 16 year old boy. he wont listen to anything i have to say about it. he just makes me feel awkward whenever i try to talk to him about it
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I'm due September 19th (a girl) & live in Winton, California
posted 28th Apr '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Amber1993:</b>" he is already 28. he still acts like a 16 year old boy. he wont listen to anything i have to say about it. he just makes me feel awkward whenever i try to talk to him about it"</blockquote>



I can kinda relate to your situation. Where my husband and i first gottogether i wanted it all the time and it was amazing, but after i got pregnant with our first child i never wanted it. So now he'll do me in my sleep, makes me give him oral of i want him to buy me something, and when i do give in i never get off. Once he's done shows over. I don't like touching myself and I'm not allowed to have a toy either. I tried talking to him about it and he'd just say I'm complaining and is not his fault i don't go faster. So i started leaving him hanging. Getting him all hot and bothered then go away. We'd fight and he'd be really mean but he finally saw where i was coming from. Now he asks every time before we stop if i had my O. It took forever but i finally got what i want. If talking don't work try leaving him hanging on the edge
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Denver, Colorado
posted 29th Apr '12
Hey everyone, so this is my first time useing this thing, & My question is if sex is uncomfortable & uv had no desire for it sence you got pregnant is that bad? im 14 weeks & i would rather not have sex ever again. well atleast thats what iv been feeling like for weeks now.
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posted 30th Apr '12
Quoting Jess&Carlos:" Hey everyone, so this is my first time useing this thing, & My question is if sex is uncomfortable ... [snip!] ... that bad? im 14 weeks & i would rather not have sex ever again. well atleast thats what iv been feeling like for weeks now."
no its normal
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Germantown, Ohio
posted 1st May '12
Quoting Jess&Carlos:" Hey everyone, so this is my first time useing this thing, & My question is if sex is uncomfortable ... [snip!] ... that bad? im 14 weeks & i would rather not have sex ever again. well atleast thats what iv been feeling like for weeks now."

No it has to be normal lol, I don't want sex right now either. It's been like that with both my other pregnancies too. This makes 3 for me and I STILL don't want any lol. It drives my SO nuts, but I think he might feel differently if he were in my shoes!
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I'm due October 21st (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Missouri
posted 2nd May '12
Quoting MamaJes100712:" No it has to be normal lol, I don't want sex right now either. It's been like that with both my other ... [snip!] ... 3 for me and I STILL don't want any lol. It drives my SO nuts, but I think he might feel differently if he were in my shoes! "


Exactly! lol i feel bad for him, and he deff lets me know it bothers him but im not even thinking about sex ever! & hes 21 so hes at his peek i believe lol. this is my first pregnancy & i didnt know if it was normal or not. thank you 
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posted 2nd May '12
Quoting Jess&Carlos:" Exactly! lol i feel bad for him, and he deff lets me know it bothers him but im not even thinking about ... [snip!] ... hes 21 so hes at his peek i believe lol. this is my first pregnancy & i didnt know if it was normal or not. thank you "

You're welcome, it's been a huge problem for us, but he doesn't push too hard most of the time and for that much I'm grateful. Should he push though, watch out cause here come the hormones lol!
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I'm due October 21st (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Missouri
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