re: PLEASE READ ME before posting in Sexuality!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kerri Desira:</b>" Ok ladies I have a question ! At what time during your pregancy do you STOP having sex?"</blockquote>




That's entirely up to you and whether or not you comfy with it. For example if I do and my pelvic starts hurting I stop.(I'm 29 weeks) I've read up on the topic and, you are allowed to have sex until your water breaks. It's completely healthy your baby is protected very safely in you, and they never know your having sex.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Valerie Roberts:</b>" ummm is it just me or are there others out there? i am horny and ready to go at all times. but i feel ... [snip!] ... weeks along, is there something that we dont know that could help? Any advise is very much appreciated... THANKS A BUNCH  "</blockquote>



My fiancée and i have found that lying sideways and kind of scissoring our legs helps immensely, and if you have a wall behind you to push yourself against tirades him while he does the most movement helps a lot as well. Bc that was what seemed to hurt me is the more movement at my waste I did caused my pelvic to cramp real bad.

<blockquote><b>Quoting mrsvincent87:</b>"   Hi I'm only 11 weeks pregnant but i had a couple of questions that im to embarrassed to ask my doctor. ... [snip!] ... was kinda wrong but im not saying that people who do are wrong, i dunno..... but would that be dangerous or is it safe to try?"</blockquote>




I can tell you personally it hurt me horribly! Not to mention in pregnancy at some point you may get hemroids which itch burn and hurt while sitting sometimes. Anal sex can increase the chance of getting them. Pregnancy will cause them either way most likely though you just don't want them worse than they have to be "I promise" and oral sex performed on you is good But no blowing in your vagina it's fatal to you and your baby!!!

My boyfriend wants to have sex, and we used to every day. I woke up wanting to, but now it just seemed to completely stop. i dont want to at all anymore. My face is broken out, I've never looked worse, and I'm not just saying that because I feel fat or whatever, I really havent ever looked worse than what I do now, and I dont always feel like getting up and putting makeup on. I know it's like impossible, but I cant help but to fear hurting the baby. He's just soooo low, its scary.
Nothing he does turns me on anymore and I cant get myself turned on.
I want to have sex, but at the same time, I dont.
Is there anything I can do to change that. Anything that may help me want it?
Please help.

omg im 16 and pregnant i dont no wt ta do ma bf dnt wanna root me or even touch me wt do i do
                 

When i have sex and im on top i get sharp pains on my right side of lower stomach is that normal???

i wish i was having sex.... i was with my ex 2 and a half years... wen i got pregnant (planned) he just vanished, changed his number told me not to text him... i cud go rnd his house but it looks like his made his choice so i'd rather not go through that stress...

so now all i can think is i cannot sleep with anyone while i am pregnant (due 28th may!!) and im going to be too busy, tired etc to even start dating once my lil ones here!

i'm prob not gonna have sex for about 4 years!!!!!!!!!!!! :'(

so me and my hubby were getting intimate and he was messing with my chest... and he swears milk came out. I'm only 15w.. is this normal??

Quoting elyssa foley:" so me and my hubby were getting intimate and he was messing with my chest... and he swears milk came out. I'm only 15w.. is this normal??"

It's not milk, it's colostrum and yes it is normal. There is no set time for a woman to start 'leaking'

i think idea is great, so carry on.

Okay I know it's really random but has anyone else found it just plain ugh! to have sex lately? I love my husband but I just cant even think about making love with him lately.

To make it worse I keep catching him jerking off when Im in the other room or even when hes driving to and from work and it hurts my feelings but I feel sooooo bad because I just cant do it =[ He recently admitted that he thinks he's addicted to jerking off and porn because (in his words) he cant even think about sex anymore either. He wants hand jobs and blow jobs every time hes stressed or has a stomach ache or when he wakes up. It makes me feel like poo and I know I shouldnt but I do. I feel disrespected...

Am I the only one with this problem?

Being pregnant is an opportunity to try out the "new positions" so to speak. It's definitely not always gonna be comfortable, especially with your growing belly...but do your research and try out new positions. And as long as you aren't on "pelvic rest" or a "no sex" rule from your doctor, go for it! You can have sex up until delivery. Some doctors actually say that sex close to a due date can induce your labor.

No cursing got it!  

Quoting sem84:" hey everyone. well my problem is not our sex life by any means i just don't feel like i am attractive ... [snip!] ... says i look fine to him, but do ya'll have any advice that would help me feel a little more attractive rather than a big cow?"

i had this problem the whole first year my son was born....go for a walk everyday it always makes me feel better and "lighter". since i started that i dropped some weight and have more energy and just feel sexier! btw you are beautiful if that is you in your pic.....but seriously i know it sounds simple and silly, but it worked for me maybe it will help you.

My husband and I have been married barely two years and this is our second child. I am currently 8 weeks pregnant. With my first pregnancy I was always ready for sex, I just couldn't get enough. This time around I am moody, sick, and completely dis-interested in sex. No matter what, my husband can not turn me on and the times that we have recently had sex was like i had to force myself. This is so unlike me, and I feel so bad. in every other way our relationship is wonderful but I feel awful about not being able to respond to any of my husbands sexual advances.....to be honest I find myself turned all the way off...Has anyone else experienced this....if so...any advice?????