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posted 14th Apr

So Sunday night i started feeling these pains, i thought nothing of it. Monday i woke up and these pains were still there expect a lil more intense still thought nothing of it, monday afternoon they were that bad i could bearl walk, so i called the hospital, was up ther from 4 in the afternoon till 11 at night by this time i was like gritting my teeth they were hruting that bad but they ahd no beds or anything so they sent me home. Michael called his mum and she wasnt happy so we went to the hospital i had went to first before they sent me away for being too fat. They checked my cervix and i was 2-3cms dilated, they sent me home, and i mean i was screaming and crying at this stage because i didnt know i was in labour and i thought something was going wrong. So we got home about 4 in the morning, and i started throwing up due to the pain i was experiencing.

At about 6 am michael ahd enough of me screaming and throwing up so he took me back to the hospital, i was checked and i was 3cms, i threw up all over michael all over myself and the bed. and they sent me home, they gave me painkillers at the hospital(which didnt work!!) and gave michael sleeping tablets to give to me once we got home, so i took them, and nothing, i was sititng up sleeping inbetween every contraction, and waking up screaming my head off when i had one, this went on untill about 4 in the afternoon when i threw up and i wet myself and michael thought my waters had broken but i said no i just wet myself, so he called his mum and his mum came around and said well lets go to my place were michael can get some sleep and we can help watch mel, i stalled doing that for as long as i could. so we got to michales mums house and starting timing them they were 10 mins apart and lasting 1 min 30seconds, so she fart arsed around for another 4 hours.

While michael sleeps and im screaming my head off, she orders dinner gets bruno around(last person i wanted to see) she ate dinner had a few fags(smokes) then deciced it was time to take me to the hospital, and bruno is tounching me and kissing me and i wanted to scream my head off at him but i was more focused on getting in to the car as fast as i could. Kim(michaels mum) drove, the free way is 100kms p/h she was doing 80 i wanted to killer her she was smoking as well, and saying its alright love its alright i was screaming inside ITS NOT FUCKING ALRIGHT YOU DUMB ITCH YOUR SMOKNG INFRONT OF A PREGNANT PERSON AND DOING 80KMS DOWNT HE FUCKING FREE WAY, plus she wouldnt shut up about her birth experiences, so we get tot he hospital at about 9pm.

I get admitted and when i get to the assement unit i am 3 cms still, so they leave me there for about half an hour, the midwife is trying to talk to me im trying to breath to get threw the contractions and half falling asleep in the middle of them and not even paying her any attention and she got pissed off so she called some one to come take me to the labour suit. From there i met the person who gave me the epidural, and he was trying to get the needle in my hand first to start me on the drip, he put 8 fucking needles in my arm and still didnt get it right, in the mean time the the doctor delivering my baby came in and said bubs was facing up so he had to turn him over, and that fucking hurt i was scream my head off, so they after that they went and got another drug person, and he got the drip in my arm first shot then he did my epi, and i thought ok its gonna take about 20 30 mins for it to work, but he hadnt even finsihed puting it in and it started working i was like , and once that epi was finished and i laid down iwas starving(i hadnt eaten in three days).

i was checked again at this point and i was 6cms, and my contractions had died down so they put me on Pitocin(sp) and i started feeling them over the epi, so i pumped more into me and it went away, then i was checked at 12, and i was 10 cms finally, they had to break my waters.

so i was just chilling untill about 2:30 and i felt the urge to push so i started pushing and he was coming down slowly, but they werent happy so they used the vaccum and my epi had wore off by this time and thye wouldnt let me have anymore, so i was pissed and in pain and felt everything, and this great doc pinched me and it hurt, so i started pushing again and this was about 2:45am and i pushed and pushed, and 30 mins later my baby boy was placed on my tummy for a short minute, then taken away to be cleaned and see if everything was alright,

he didnt make a noise for a few minutes and michael was worried that he was a still born but i knew that he wasnt and he just had shit in his tubes, and when we herd his cry, michael and his mum started to cry and i had tears welling up in my eyes,but i didnt cry cuz they wre still down there and they were pulling and im like WTF is there another one in there and they i relised it was the placenta, so he was over there and i didnt get to hold him or see him properly for about 15 20 mins i recon. The first thing micahel said to me was after he was out was I love you, and he kissed me and hugged me the best he could

I got three stitches and they were internal ones because the doctor did it and he even said he did, then michael and his mum walked ou for 5 mins to get some fresh air and for osme reson i wanted to cry becasue of this, but i was like stuff them i have my beautiful baby boy and they are missing out

He was 7 pound 9oz, 51 cms long, born at 3:16am on the 09/04

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