Online dating sites

I just found some of my husbands emails, and discovered that he has signed up for an online dating site specializing in married affairs! I am devistated! I was in his email account to make sure that his tax returns were accepted, and i noticed that he had all these emails from two different dating sites, so I decided to snoop. He has actually set up profiles, and has contacted some members! I know he hasn't totally signed up for 1 because he needs a credit card #, and I have the credit cards. I have always trusted him, we have/HAD a wonderful relationship. We are both chauffers, and travel ALOT. He is supposedly working right now and won't be done for at least 4 more hours, and I am going nuts!I just called his work, and it turns out, he left VERY early to pick up his client. I am devistated and heartbroken. I thought I would never have to worry about this with him, he is my everything, and I thought I was his. I am trying not to get upset, because I am 30 weeks pregnant, but I am really freaking out! I'm not sure how to confront him with this. I am really considering just packing up some stuff and going to my parent's for a few days. I just don't know what to do! Any opinions/ideas would be greatly appreciated right now. By the way. My son's father cheated on me when I was pregnant with him, and my husband knows this. Please help!

Quoting Mrs.McK:“ I just found some of my husbands emails, and discovered that he has signed up for an online dating site ... [snip!] ... right now. By the way. My son's father cheated on me when I was pregnant with him, and my husband knows this. Please help!”

Wow! Talk to him, show him the emails, and ask him why he feels the need to do something like that? Men go through a lot during pregnancies also, but there should be no reason for him to sign up on dating sites and actually contact people! That is really all I would be able to think about doing, I hope everything works out!!

Quoting Mrs.McK:“ I just found some of my husbands emails, and discovered that he has signed up for an online dating site ... [snip!] ... right now. By the way. My son's father cheated on me when I was pregnant with him, and my husband knows this. Please help!”

i think going to your parents house to relax would be a good idea. There is no excuse for this and theres no way it isnt what you think. Just go relax and talk to him later

Quoting annaber:“ i think going to your parents house to relax would be a good idea. There is no excuse for this and theres no way it isnt what you think. Just go relax and talk to him later”

I agree with that, it is a very good idea to be relaxed.. You need to have your wits about you when you bring it up with him!

Aww, was the site AshleyMadison? My husband and I heard about that site that specializes in affairs for married people so we set up accounts for fun to see what kinds of things people say.

I'm sorry you're going through that. I'm not saying this is the best option, but if I were in your situation, I'd probably just pack up and leave for a little while to clear my head. Good luck!

Quoting SpaceCowgirl:“ Aww, was the site AshleyMadison? My husband and I heard about that site that specializes in affairs for ... [snip!] ... option, but if I were in your situation, I'd probably just pack up and leave for a little while to clear my head. Good luck!”

what kind of stuff do they say? hi im married 10 years, 3 kids.. want to have sex?

Quoting SpaceCowgirl:“ Aww, was the site AshleyMadison? My husband and I heard about that site that specializes in affairs for ... [snip!] ... option, but if I were in your situation, I'd probably just pack up and leave for a little while to clear my head. Good luck!”

Yes it was! I had never heard of it. The stupid thing is , if he had come to me with it, we probably would have done the same thing you and your husband did, just for fun. I think I will pack, and as soon as he gets home with the car, i'm outta here for a few days. I'm thinking maybe a hotel might be a better option than my parents, they would be too nosey, and I really don't feel like explaining. Thank you all for responding!

Quoting SpaceCowgirl:“ Aww, was the site AshleyMadison? My husband and I heard about that site that specializes in affairs for ... [snip!] ... option, but if I were in your situation, I'd probably just pack up and leave for a little while to clear my head. Good luck!”

My husband and I did that too.

I'm all for personal freedom, but I can't fathom how people can sleep comfortably knowing they are making money off of helping people cheat.

Can't say I really have any advice for the OP, but as I've read the entire thread since it wasn't that long, it seems she's come to a decision anyway.

Best of luck, OP.

C.

I'd probably be calling his cellphone and demanding he come home ASAP. Then I'd confront him, but I doubt I could do it in a calm way after finding something like that out. I'd print all the emails out and so forth and then dare him deny it.