closeness with fist child..

My daughter will be 2 in march I plan on having another child when my birth control is up which will be in a year and a half-two years I'm kind of scared to have another child because I don't want to lose the connection/closeness I have with my daughter. So you people with two or more children did you lose your closeness/connection with your first child when you had you second child?

I just had my second child last week, but I don't feel any less close to my daughter (my first). She has unique personality traits and qualities no one in the world could replace or imitate. And my new son is his own little man too. I love them both overwhelmingly and differently but equally.

Don't worry. You'll see. Everyone is right when they say your heart just grows, your love isn't divided.

I have 3 and I felt the same way with each new addition to our family I would even admit to feeling guilty, my oldest is 5 middle is 2 youngest is 4mos n I love them all for diff things about them as long as I spend alone time each day with them wether its spelling words n homework video games, to coloring with jade or breastfeeding n putting smaller babies to sleep one at a time youll find what works for u, and one day I'll be gone, best thing I ever did was give dean his younger siblings