Judging/ and soon to be mommy!

I think it's sad how many rude, and judge mental people there are in the world today. Most soon to be teen mom's are looking for advice on there forums not asking to be judged. Of course there are ways to prevent an unplanned pregnancy but sometimes theres not. Everyones bodies work in different ways. Some have adverse affect on birth controls and condoms and that's why they get pregnant. And also having a baby is never a mistake its a blessing from God! It will be very challenging and rough at times being a young mother. For teen mom's out there who are scared about being pregnant and raising a child, dont be. Because there are support groups out there to help you get all the nesessities such as clothing, blankets, crib, stroller, carseat, foods, housing, and heating and lots more to help with your baby. Not only are there support groups but theres your family and friends too!(they help alot) I know what its like being a soon to be teen mom and all the negative and positive emotions about it. I was scared when I first found out I was pregnant I didnt know what everyones reactions were gonna be, didnt know if me and my boyfriend could support a baby but after I told my mom everything changed she got me all the support I could get and reassured me that we could do it and that we would be great parents being comforted by that makes me even more excited to give birth to my beautiful bundle of joy! (:

Why do so many teen mums have something like this as a first post???

You know how many times a day i hear the same smurf? Teen pregnancy is nothing to be proud of. It's a mistake, whether you want to admit it or not. Grow up and stop worrying about what people think about your age. If it doesn't really matter like you say it doesn't stop complaining about it.

*slow clap*

It's because they call themselves "teen mommies".... Go figure  

Quoting BlueTeamXTwo:" Why do so many teen mums have something like this as a first post???"

they think they will get sympathy here.

Quoting Tyson's Mama ♥:" It's because they call themselves "teen mommies".... Go figure  "

Hey Im 25 why dont we get our own title...lol

Quoting Moo♥:" they think they will get sympathy here."

I got pregnant as a teenager and I think my first post was along the lines of HI!!

Quoting Kali Ann:" I think it's sad how many rude, and judge mental people there are in the world today. Most soon to be ... [snip!] ... we would be great parents being comforted by that makes me even more excited to give birth to my beautiful bundle of joy! (:"

and I am sure "adult" moms get the same amount of criticism, support, non support, etc...

as a former teen mom.
its a huge mistake.
it doesnt ruin your life but it will change it in ways you cant yet imagine
i dont get to go out and drink with my friends
or go to clubs
or just have fun
i cant even get a job because i have no one to watch my kid for free and no money to pay someone to watch my kid

it sucks.
i love my child to pieces but it. sucks.
close your smurfing legs.

Some might question if you don't have the education enough to distinguish the difference between words if you'll have the capacity to care for a child.

Babies are not always blessings. Sometimes they are burdens, a way from learning from mistakes. It's not their fault. Yes, teen moms SHOULD be afraid of raising a child, because someone who is afraid is someone who is concerned about their education, their social life, their money, their uncertain futures. Someone who is not worried shows lack of care and thus effort. Every mother worries, every mother gets scared regardless of age.

Yes there is help, but unless you're a-okay if your daughter starts having babies at 14, take your "Don't judge me" crap and lock it up. Because you are, too.

I really don't care that you're a teen mom. Congratulations on your baby, whenever he/she arrives.

Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" You know how many times a day i hear the same smurf? Teen pregnancy is nothing to be proud of. It's a ... [snip!] ... about what people think about your age. If it doesn't really matter like you say it doesn't stop complaining about it. "

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<blockquote><b>Quoting Kali Ann:</b>" I think it's sad how many rude, and judge mental people there are in the world today. Most soon to be ... [snip!] ... we would be great parents being comforted by that makes me even more excited to give birth to my beautiful bundle of joy! (:"</blockquote>




A) you aren't a teen mom, you are a knocked up teenager
B)your baby daddy will likely leave and if he stays y'all have little chance of success in life.
C)I blame abstinence only education

Being a teen mom doesn't really have anything to do with people's bodies doing different things.