body blues?

So, I gained 30 lbs from my pregnancy putting me *embarassed to say* abit at the two hundred point...and everyone just keeps telling me not to worry about it... But I'm not really loving my new body if you know what I mean, and I've been feeling a bit depressed about it lately...I can't fit into ANY of my clothes...and I did have a c section so I couldn't really do any serious working out for almost two monthes... and no, thats not a lot of time...but is it normal to totally feel crushed about my apperance after having my daughter? I mean my husband still loves me and finds me attractive so whats the deal? Maybe I just need to get back to work and do something other than take care of the baby in our apartment...but I just don't feel confident the way I used to and I love my daughter so much I totally don't blame it on her...she's the most gorgeous thing in my life. I just kinda hate the way I look right now....

Quoting sara_wisher:“ So, I gained 30 lbs from my pregnancy putting me *embarassed to say* abit at the two hundred point...and ... [snip!] ... much I totally don't blame it on her...she's the most gorgeous thing in my life. I just kinda hate the way I look right now....”

Oh stop complaining, I gained 80lbs lol...but I know what you mean, I dont like how my body is right now either, I also had a c-section so wasnt able to do anything for awhile but the lbs and inches have been coming off.

I'm sorry sweetie. I gained 40 lbs. w/ my pregnancy. I too can't fit into my clothes. My hips spread so much I have stretchies on them & not my tummy!! =\ Weird.

I hear about people who lose like 20 lbs. at 1 wk. pp & it stresses me out! I'm like geez... I'm even bfing!! My stomach has gone down a lot within the last week *my baby is a week old* but I haven't lost any weight except for the weight I lost from having the baby.

Quoting kenzie2cute4words:“ I'm sorry sweetie. I gained 40 lbs. w/ my pregnancy. I too can't fit into my clothes. My hips spread ... [snip!] ... within the last week *my baby is a week old* but I haven't lost any weight except for the weight I lost from having the baby.”

at 3 weeks pp I lost 30lbs! 2 weeks after that another 10!! I am half way back to my starting weight.

Quoting Mommy loves both of you:“ at 3 weeks pp I lost 30lbs! 2 weeks after that another 10!! I am half way back to my starting weight.”

did u bf i hear that helps alot? just wondering  

Quoting MAY BABY BOY!:“ did u bf i hear that helps alot? just wondering  ”

On and off. I have had alot of problems, and unfortunetly had to stop all together.

I have this problem toooo! it sucks cause I have NO ONE to talk to where I'm from besides my mum and pregnant sister but shes super tiny so we wont even go there lol,it sucks I know. 

Quoting Mommy loves both of you:“ On and off. I have had alot of problems, and unfortunetly had to stop all together.”

oh im sorry hope ur doing better  

i'm just gaining weight and have no baby bump whatsoever... I would say I have the body blues! None of my clothes fit and you can't tell I'm pregnant!

um...yeah I had my baby two months ago...