Anyone else single and pregnant? :/

I'm 6 and a half months prgnant and I've been broken up with the baby's father since the beginning.. He hasn't had anything to do with the pregnancy until last week, he came to an appointment.. And I started missing him again.. It seems as though beig alone has been getting alot harder as I get further along in this pregnancy.. So if there are any other women going through this amazing experience alone... How do you do it? I'm looking for some advice and some people going through this as well to talk too..

I'm due in 8 days!!! And I'm alone. My BD has been cheating/leaving me since the very beginning.
I truly understand how you feel, and it sucks. My advice to you is the same advice that everyone has given me. Focus 100% on your little miracle. The men run away because they know we won't. The silver lining? We get our amazing babies to ourselves.   I know it's hard, so if you want to talk...feel free to message me!

Quoting Kaybai:" I'm 6 and a half months prgnant and I've been broken up with the baby's father since the beginning.. ... [snip!] ... experience alone... How do you do it? I'm looking for some advice and some people going through this as well to talk too.."

im due in a week and a half andddddd im single.

My childs father left me while i was five months pregnant. He was in AIT training for the army.. I sat at home everynight just waiting for him to call because hearing his voice was the only thing that mattered to me. and one day he just stopped talking to me haha.   We are civil now.

but im single... single as can be. and its tough :/ so if you ever neeed to talk about anything im here! 

I'm doing it alone. 20w3d an have a 3 yr old daughter. It's crazy but I know me doing it on my own is best. Something you have to remember the less stress and strain on yourself and baby is always going to be better.

Quoting Sommer Mccafferty:" im due in a week and a half andddddd im single. My childs father left me while i was five months ... [snip!] ... We are civil now. but im single... single as can be. and its tough :/ so if you ever neeed to talk about anything im here! "

I give you props for being single. My BD is 26, and his 17 year old girlfriend prefers that we don't talk...because it's her call lol. Needless to say, we are NOT civil!
What are you having?!

I am right there with you... I had broken it off with my BD a few weeks before I found out I was pregnant.. He has not been there for me or our child, not one appointment or anything. I deal with it, but also want him to be a part of the baby's life, but I guess I cannot force him. He says i tricked him into having a baby.. I didn't want a baby at this point in my life, but its happenening and I am not going to regret it. I have several friends that are there for me through everything. It works for me to talk about things with my family and friends. When they ask if he has said anything I just simply say no and change the subject.. I am done trying to get him to care... We are better off. I know its hard but everyday is a little easier.

Quoting becca_caitlin:" I give you props for being single. My BD is 26, and his 17 year old girlfriend prefers that we don't talk...because it's her call lol. Needless to say, we are NOT civil! What are you having?!"

LOL. well we werent civil til i was about 34 weeks pregnant when he came to visit for christmas.. I forced him to meet up with me, and we talked like adults for the first time. We usually act like little kids that hate eachother, always calling eachother names and trying to make the other person hurt. but now we just dont talk unless its about our son, and its civil...for now... I dont think it will stay this way :/ haha.

im having a little boy 

I'm having a little boy too!   I'm soo excited.

Yep I have been single since I was 6 weeks preggo, it took time to get over but honestly I think it is soo much better without his bullsmurf, just remember you are very strong and whether he decides to be there or not you will have your precious child   My bd is half assed there, he is there only when convenient for him and smurf that...that pisses me off more than if he just didn't come around..it is like he needs to be there or not at all, that flip-flop smurf is pissing me off...and lately he can't even do smurf to help me get ready for the baby like put her crib together (which I did on my own last night because I got tired of waiting on him and hearing his sorry excuses) and he wants to be there for the birth but why should he? That is a privilege only fathers get and he sure hasn't shown me he wants to be one..yea he can say he loves the baby so much but where is he when he is needed to help out with things for her? No where to be found and then he throws his gf in my face like trying to make me jealous, like I still want him..umm HELL NO..she can have that sorry excuse of a man I sure as hell don't want that...

Quoting becca_caitlin:" I'm having a little boy too!   I'm soo excited."

Boys are awesome! I hear theyre a lot less dramatic..  ! is your son gonna have your last name or are you giving him his fathers last name?

Sorry if thats a personal question.. Im just curious since you're having a boy, someone told me that since im having a boy its WRONG of me not to give him his fathers last name.. haah. well, im giving him my last name.

Quoting Sommer Mccafferty:" LOL. well we werent civil til i was about 34 weeks pregnant when he came to visit for christmas.. ... [snip!] ... talk unless its about our son, and its civil...for now... I dont think it will stay this way :/ haha. im having a little boy "

See with my bd I try to be civil but his ass takes that for granted, and doesn't do as he should which pisses me off and makes me get bitchy with him..if he does as he says or should we have no issues...

Quoting becca_caitlin:" I give you props for being single. My BD is 26, and his 17 year old girlfriend prefers that we don't talk...because it's her call lol. Needless to say, we are NOT civil! What are you having?!"

hahaha sounds like my bd trying to throw his 17 year old gf in my face when he is 22 about to be 23 lmao I told him I am glad she fits his maturity level    

Quoting Melissa ღ:" See with my bd I try to be civil but his ass takes that for granted, and doesn't do as he should which ... [snip!] ... do as he should which pisses me off and makes me get bitchy with him..if he does as he says or should we have no issues..."

LOL. yeah. my childs father just completely decided to ignore the fact that im about to have a baby, i mean just in the last 4 weeks is when he really tried to care.. I dont know if he actually does.. but hes trying.

I try my hardest to be civil with him, and have been trying since we first broke up.. but he keeps bringing up the past, and the negatives. Like thats a way to move forward -_-

I'm 18wks, and some days are easier than others. I'll have my days where I'm like "Whatever, who needs him? I have plenty of people supporting me!" But on other days, I'm crying because I feel so alone, and I'll see pics of cute lil families on FB or on 16 & Pregnant, and wish it were me. What makes it harder is he'll say he wants to be with me and the baby and he wants he and I to work out being together. There are times when he won't call or text for weeks, and when I call or text him, he says he's busy and will call me back. But he doesn't. So it's like, how can you say you want us to work, but you've moved to another state and you don't talk to me? I feel like I'm inconveniencing him. I spoke to my mom today, and she told me not to worry about it and that I have more than enough family to help care and provide for this baby.

Quoting BigDreamer10:" I'm 18wks, and some days are easier than others. I'll have my days where I'm like "Whatever, who needs ... [snip!] ... today, and she told me not to worry about it and that I have more than enough family to help care and provide for this baby."

mama just focus on that baby for now, dont try and "work it out" until you arent pregnant.. You dont need stress, and if you try and work it out now and it all turns to smurf.. that can cause a lot of stress that isnt needed. My ex fiance did the same thiing.. he kept giving me hope, when he would visit he would tell me "I want us to work, i love you" but when he would go back to his base in kansas.. its like i dont exist to him.. so i gave up trying to get him to care.. about me that is. he cares about his son, just not about me.

I too have family that has done EVERYTHING for me that my fiance wouldnt do.. money wise that is. and its been so much better that way.