re: Getting pregnant from rape.

Quoting yo gabby gabby:" I wouldn't dislike the child or blame the child. you can't hold something like biology over a kids head ... [snip!] ... like biology over a kids head but financially I wouldn't be able to afford another kiddo and I could never ever adopt a kid out"

I think I would, honestly. I think I'd hate the kid.

Quoting Jasify:" I think I would, honestly. I think I'd hate the kid. "

oh that is completely understandable
not everyone thinks like I do

I tend to disassociate myself from personal things like that

crazy result of smurffy life

I ended up pregnant after being raped... I did MC at 4 months.

I had no choice but to keep it since abortions are illegal, and adoption is stupid here.

I feel releived - though not happy - that I MCed though.

Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:" If you were raped and got pregnant, what would you do?"

Have an abortion. No questions about it.

Quoting CEO Mommy  :" Just a question, so pleassee dont shoot me but why would u guys abort? I didnt expect so many people ... [snip!] ... people to say that... So I feel like Im missing something lol. Is it because the child will be a reminder of what happened... ?"

I'd abort because I'm not financially nor physically ready for a child... and if I was raped it is not my fault and therefore should not be made to go through something and risk my health and sanity just for a child.

You know, I've always said that if I was ever raped and got pregnant I'd want an abortion... (even when I was pro-life I thought that) but when it actually happened I didn't want an abortion. I wasn't happy to be pregnant but I didn't want to abort.

I have a family member who is very prolife, and she swears she wouldn't even give a rape baby up for adoption let alone abort... but, a big family secret she has had two abortions, one because her BF pressured her and the second due to rape.

Bottom line is, you rarely know what you would do really. If you've never been in that position you cannot answer completely sure.

Quoting MommyRu:" You know, I've always said that if I was ever raped and got pregnant I'd want an abortion... (even when ... [snip!] ... line is, you rarely know what you would do really. If you've never been in that position you cannot answer completely sure. "

I have not been in the situation, but my sister has. With her situation, and with my health right now... I can say 100% I'd abort. Hands down. No questions asked. It would be for certain..... get it down, and move on. I am NOT risking another case of bells palsy, a drug addicted baby (due to my meds), stopping my migraine meds, or slowing down my career (for possible bedrest, I was on bedrest with my 1st) for a child conceived from rape. Would not do it.

Coupled in with what my sister went through, sorry.... nope, not doing it.

Quoting MommyRu:" You know, I've always said that if I was ever raped and got pregnant I'd want an abortion... (even when ... [snip!] ... line is, you rarely know what you would do really. If you've never been in that position you cannot answer completely sure. "

shes probably so pro-life now because of the abortions.

Quoting La~La:" shes probably so pro-life now because of the abortions."

She was pro-life before the abortions... it's something she never speaks about. And I do not judge the abortions at all, the hipocricy of her standing out side the abortion clinic protesting however annoys the hell out of me.

Quoting MommyRu:" She was pro-life before the abortions... it's something she never speaks about. And I do not judge the ... [snip!] ... the abortions at all, the hipocricy of her standing out side the abortion clinic protesting however annoys the hell out of me."

oh thatd annoy the bejeebus outta me too

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brandie Marie.:</b>" If I was in a good place to raise another child, I would keep it. This pregnancy is a product of rape. I strongly considered abortion but in the end decided to keep her."</blockquote>


Wow. Awesome.

Having never been in that situation I really don't know what I would do. The raw emotion from a rape...much less a pregnancy....I couldn't even speculate.

Im siouxanne , xaviers real mother. This is a FAKE profile page of me & my son. I have already reported it to the website owners & i expect this to be taken down immediately. This is fraud / identity theft & an invasion of our personal information. The 'Topics' & comments that were posted on this page are offensive to me especially seeing as they are nowhere near accurate. My mother is NOT a "crack head". She has never been arrested. Both of my parents are very supportive of me & they are both well off. We also live in a decent neighborhood , not the "ghetto" , as this person has claimed. Yes my sons last name is Money but no , no one that i know of has ever assumed i was "ghetto" for it or that i named him that to "be cool". It IS his fathers last name but im looking to get that changed for personal reasons. On the topic "My son's father beat me up." My sons father has NEVER put me in the hospital for "cracking my ribs and giving me a concussion" , let alone even laid hands on me. I would not put myself or my son in that position.

This page is very pathetic / psychotic to say the least .. They're using our names & pictures for their benefit , for which i dont even understand what they would get out of this. This is MY son that i gave birth to & have been raising since he was born & put into my arms. Im a very good teen mom & im proud to say that i am. So i dont appreciate someone else pretending & fantasizing to have these "memories" with my son & acting like they have raised him , this is way crossing the line. In situations involving children , it is not taken lightly.

I do appreciate all the comments on pictures of my son saying kind things , but this page is a fake.

<blockquote><b>Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:</b>" If you were raped and got pregnant, what would you do?"</blockquote>




I would keep it...

This happened to me when I was 14 and I had an abortion. I would never snort for that reason again.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:</b>" If you were raped and got pregnant, ... [snip!] ... I would keep it... This happened to me when I was 14 and I had an abortion. I would never snort for that reason again."</blockquote>




Snort...lol damn autocorrect.
Anywho, I didn't realize this was so old.