re: Butt sex question!

Quoting Dina Monique's NY Mama:" I didn't crap all over the place. It was more of "Oh look at your dick. Eewwww." Type of thing. But still nasty. I did poo before. IDK. Maybe too much lobe?"

You can NEVER have too much lube!!!

Quoting Dina Monique's NY Mama:" For the first time EVER me and my SO had anal sex. We've tried before but i couldn't get past the pain ... [snip!] ... been pooping non stop? He came inside. Ok this is too much sex talk for me. I just made myself uncomfortable! BYE! Thank you!"

I've never had anal because of the thought of pooping during.. Also I wouldn't be able to handle the pain.

Completely clean out right before having anal. There's still a change of it happening though.

This thread scares me...

Quoting Rydicule91:" This thread scares me..."

Me too lol

LOL my husband said that if I ever asked for that he would divorce me hahahah He is kidding of course. But we have NEVER done that and never will. For so many reasons, but the poop reason is def on the top of the list lol

It's not for everyone. I have had several women in the past swear that they never would consider it. The couple that have tried it, wound up begging for it over and over...To each their own. No I am married to an incredible woman. We are both open minded and willing to experiment with each other's fantasies and desires to keep our passion hot and steamy...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aramis:</b>" It's not for everyone. I have had several women in the past swear that they never would consider it. ... [snip!] ... We are both open minded and willing to experiment with each other's fantasies and desires to keep our passion hot and steamy..."</blockquote>




That's sweet   unfortunately I'm pretty much the opposite and only do the boring stuff lol

So I'm reading these post's stating that 'I've been with my SO for 2,3,5,7 years' even and after a while it get's old. I've been with mine for 11 and yes sometimes it can but try to do something you've not done in a long time, and when I say long time...I mean like when you guy's might have first got together. Or maybe get a book and try a different position every night?
I know me and my hubby doesn't do anal very often, hardly ever. But I have found that, like most, once I got past the pain it wasn't the WORST thing in the world. Then after trying to figure out how to REALLY enjoy it enough where I get feeling out of it as well, was to bring in some toys! I know most women are like WTF but no really. I would get on bottom (on my back) and arch enough so he can position himself where he needs to be in order to ...do his thing. Once we got past the pain and comfortableness I was able to grab a dildo, and/or vibrator a do what most know as a TP (total penetration). It wasn't my idea but the hubby saw how uncomfortable I was and stopped to see if there was anything that could be done so I could enjoy it as well. He asked if I would like to try it (knowing I had nothing to lose at that point) and I said sure. I found that doing a 'TP' takes my mind off of what he's doing back there, and more on all the stimulation I'm getting in ALL area's! I was actually able to come not only rather quickly, but extremely hard!
I know that was a bit of a TMI but I tried to censor it as much as I could...sorry ladies...

Quoting M. Johnson:" So I'm reading these post's stating that 'I've been with my SO for 2,3,5,7 years' even and after a while ... [snip!] ... quickly, but extremely hard! I know that was a bit of a TMI but I tried to censor it as much as I could...sorry ladies..."

I think you did a fantastic job conveying it and congratulations on being open and willing to push your boundaries to satisfy your partner! As far as being TMI, I believe that anyone reading this line of blog should definitely expect TMI, otherwise log out and go read REDBOOK...LOL
My wife loves anal on an occasional basis and she has much harder orgasms through DP (Double Penetration). I even bought a special dildo with a cockring at the base, to give her that sensation.
I will add however, MEN THIS IS FOR YOU!
If you think for one moment that it's possible, go that afternoon, get a manicure. Her internal tissues are extremely sensitive and tender. You do not want to cut or scratch her back there.

Quoting Aramis:" I think you did a fantastic job conveying it and congratulations on being open and willing to push your ... [snip!] ... get a manicure. Her internal tissues are extremely sensitive and tender. You do not want to cut or scratch her back there. "

Thx hon and I'm having to agree with you this time.   I know it sounds crazy ladies but a 'T.P.' actually is better in my eyes. It really does relieve alot of the pain cause your busy feeling something else that's not so bad after all! Oh and gentlemen...no really...cut them nails! It's already going to be hurting us enough, we don't need a cut to help with the pain!

Quoting Aramis:" I think you did a fantastic job conveying it and congratulations on being open and willing to push your ... [snip!] ... get a manicure. Her internal tissues are extremely sensitive and tender. You do not want to cut or scratch her back there. "

Thx hon and I'm having to agree with you this time.   I know it sounds crazy ladies but a 'T.P.' actually is better in my eyes. It really does relieve alot of the pain cause your busy feeling something else that's not so bad after all! Oh and gentlemen...no really...cut them nails! It's already going to be hurting us enough, we don't need a cut to help with the pain!

I've only done anal once and it wasn't with my current SO, the guy I let do it was significantly smaller than my SO.. I'm afraid if I let my SO do it, he'll get his hopes up and love it and I'll hate it and he'll just be disappointed. I know my man would love it if I let him.. I'm just afraid of letting him down.  

anal is definitely amazing with oral stimulation lol i own a hitachi and never looked back lol gives the most intense orgasms in whichever hole we choose lol i love it. get yourself a clit vibrator and anal will feel better. i guess when youre really aroused it helps deal with pain lol but until you get past the head it sucks lol

Quoting Dina Monique's NY Mama:" For the first time EVER me and my SO had anal sex. We've tried before but i couldn't get past the pain ... [snip!] ... been pooping non stop? He came inside. Ok this is too much sex talk for me. I just made myself uncomfortable! BYE! Thank you!"

you shouldn't let him cum in you durning anal, it can cause a serious infection and it doesn't come out on its own and can stay in there for a long time.

uh thats not true. unless you dont poop for like a week. how can it cause an infection? your anus as more germs then the sperm does. ive been doing anal for years, never once got an infection. i think youre bias or ignorant about anal sex