re: CALLING ALL 2009 BABY TTCers!!!

Quoting ~NOT GIVING UP~:“ HAHA Thats why I take that break inbetween... the break is for him not me LOL”

LMAO same here! i just let him having super quickies now so it doesnt seem as much of a chore to him, although i think he was getting abit tired of it after the last week of my pestering   Maybe its because i say to him 'wana make a baby now' every time (or something similarily baby related) LOL it must be soo off putting when we never actually do manage to conceive! my poor fella!

Quoting ~NOT GIVING UP~:“ HAHA Thats why I take that break inbetween... the break is for him not me LOL”

He was like we did it 6 times already...I was like SOOOOO??? hahaha

Quoting twinmami:“ LMAO same here! i just let him having super quickies now so it doesnt seem as much of a chore to him, ... [snip!] ... something similarily baby related) LOL it must be soo off putting when we never actually do manage to conceive! my poor fella!”

Mike doesn't like the "schedule" .. he is more spur of the moment..but I am trying not to make it such a chore. If it doesn't happen this month..I am not even bringing it up next month...

Quoting Mason's Ma♥TTC #2:“ Mike doesn't like the "schedule" .. he is more spur of the moment..but I am trying not to make it such a chore. If it doesn't happen this month..I am not even bringing it up next month...”

Yup neither does C, i just know in my head that we need to do it that day and try and make sure it happens. Its pretty much always me that initiates though, he likes to do it in the morning and i dont. but seeing as we need to i just go with the morning thing whenever he wants, anythings better than nothing right lol and it works better if he thinks its his idea lol

Quoting ~NOT GIVING UP~:“ I use it everytime because I love it! And my doc told me to BD every other day from CD10-CD18... but thats just his opinion and I'm going to listen to him for this month. He told DO NOT bd everyday!”

I just c alled doctors office and they told me that KY doesn't kill sperm...i'm so confused!!

I know i'm probably thinking way to much into all this but i just don't want to do anything that would prevent me from getting pg. i'd so love to have a valentines baby and if i get pg this cycle thats about what my due date would be.

Quoting praying for 2009 baby:“ I just c alled doctors office and they told me that KY doesn't kill sperm...i'm so confused!! I know ... [snip!] ... me from getting pg. i'd so love to have a valentines baby and if i get pg this cycle thats about what my due date would be.”

My due date would be my 26th birthday.

Quoting praying for 2009 baby:“ I just c alled doctors office and they told me that KY doesn't kill sperm...i'm so confused!! I know ... [snip!] ... me from getting pg. i'd so love to have a valentines baby and if i get pg this cycle thats about what my due date would be.”

Ok so maybe kill is a harsh word, but it is KNOWN for harming sperm. Look at any ttc site and it will tell you the same, as will most women ttc!! i really dont think its worth the risk, but thats just my opinion!

Quoting twinmami:“ Ok so maybe kill is a harsh word, but it is KNOWN for harming sperm. Look at any ttc site and it ... [snip!] ... site and it will tell you the same, as will most women ttc!! i really dont think its worth the risk, but thats just my opinion!”

i don't wanna risk anything! i don't wanna do anything at all that would even in the slightest cause me to not get pregnant.

do you use preseed?

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/435788
http://www.helpconceive.com/hc_inVitroFert.html
http://www.pregnancy-info.net/QA/answers-ky_jelly/

Theres loads more, mainly saying why you dont have enough natural lubrication and the problems it can be pointing to (low estrogen etc). I think pre-seed ornatural is the way to go!

Quoting praying for 2009 baby:“ i don't wanna risk anything! i don't wanna do anything at all that would even in the slightest cause me to not get pregnant. do you use preseed?”

I have enough natural lube once we 'get started', but i dont have any ewcm - so i might have to try some pre seed this cycle. i thought it would be cheaper on ebay, but its still the regular price!

Quoting twinmami:“ http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/435788 http://www.helpconceive.com/hc_inVitroFert.html http://ww ... [snip!] ... natural lubrication and the problems it can be pointing to (low estrogen etc). I think pre-seed ornatural is the way to go!”

thanks for the links!

The first one mentioned using mineral oil (i think a fertility dr suggested it) i think i might try that since it won't be as expensive at preseed.

does anyone know anything about using mineral oil? what brand should i get? where could i buy it?

Thanks!

Quoting praying for 2009 baby:“ thanks for the links! The first one mentioned using mineral oil (i think a fertility dr suggested it) ... [snip!] ... at preseed. does anyone know anything about using mineral oil? what brand should i get? where could i buy it? Thanks!”

You can also really use egg whites instead of preseed. it's said to help. Gross to me but good for nature.

Quoting twinmami:“ (i havent caught up with the rest of the posts yet but...) LMAO sounds just like me. I want that ... [snip!] ... pre-seed is sooo expensive, like $15 for 6 little sachets   Ok - now il get back to catching up on the other posts lol”

Damn, sorry, I've been out for the last 24 hours, but mineral oil is found in the section of the store with all the medicines and stuff. If you ask someone, you should find it. It's clear and really cheap. I don't know the brand of the stuff we have, but we got it from WalMart. It's sold as a laxative/lubricant and if you ask any employee in that area, they should be able to find it for you. Just make sure it's pure mineral oil and not something else.

Quoting praying for 2009 baby:“ thanks for the links! The first one mentioned using mineral oil (i think a fertility dr suggested it) ... [snip!] ... at preseed. does anyone know anything about using mineral oil? what brand should i get? where could i buy it? Thanks!”

Text is so hard to get personality from, but I feel like you're panicy over there.... are you?

Quoting Jenn`GoneWild:“ Damn, sorry, I've been out for the last 24 hours, but mineral oil is found in the section of the store ... [snip!] ... any employee in that area, they should be able to find it for you. Just make sure it's pure mineral oil and not something else.”

and now you know why i don't wanna get preseed lol

okay thanks! i'll look for mineral oil next time we go to walmart...which is almost every day lol. i assume the way you use it would be the same as the KY.