re: CALLING ALL 2009 BABY TTCers!!!

Quoting LOOPY4971:“ You should ALWAYS use some kind of lube!!!! It cuts down on your chance of getting cervical cancer because ... [snip!] ... Oxygen Network. If you are ovulating, use Preseed. It's the only one that will not hinder the sperm from getting to the egg.”

yeah but preseed is really expensive and i don't think i can buy it locally anywhere...can i?

so you're saying to use KY when i'm not ovulating and safe the preseed for when i am? I'm not really sure when i ovulate yet since it's just my 1st month of trying.

Quoting praying for 2009 baby:“ yeah but preseed is really expensive and i don't think i can buy it locally anywhere...can i? so you're ... [snip!] ... ovulating and safe the preseed for when i am? I'm not really sure when i ovulate yet since it's just my 1st month of trying.”

I think the safe thing would be to use Pre-Seed from cycle day 10-20, and use KY the rest of the time. Remember sperm can live for 3-5 days if you use the pre seed (and if the sperm is healthy)so you dont want to go killing it early with ky when you are too close to ovulation. If you have a regular cycle, monitor your cm and bbt, it should be quite easy to see when you are O'ing, especially after 2 or 3 cycles. Hopefully you will be preg asap so you wont need to get too much into charting though!

Quoting twinmami:“ I think the safe thing would be to use Pre-Seed from cycle day 10-20, and use KY the rest of the time. ... [snip!] ... O'ing, especially after 2 or 3 cycles. Hopefully you will be preg asap so you wont need to get too much into charting though!”

okay that sounds like a good idea minus the fact i still don't know where to look for preseed...also if i use for CD 10 - 20 i'd need more than one box of 6 since my DH said everyday were gonna BD lol

i have been charting and it hasn't been too bad actually and yes i hope pregnant ASAP. lol i already know i'm gonna be a POAS freak!

Quoting praying for 2009 baby:“ yeah but preseed is really expensive and i don't think i can buy it locally anywhere...can i? so you're ... [snip!] ... ovulating and safe the preseed for when i am? I'm not really sure when i ovulate yet since it's just my 1st month of trying.”

I only use preseed during my fertile window. I bought it off www.early-pregnancy-tests.com for $16.50 for 6. I personally don't find that to be too expensive but every body is different. It lasts me more than a month. I think this is the 3rd month I have had mine.
Good luck hun.

prplpatudy==Yes I am temping everybody!! haha I gave in. It wasnt that I was against it, I just get SOOO forgetful I thought it would be a waste of my time, but lately first thing I stick that baby in my mouth and usually fall asleep until it beeps haha.
And praying for 2009 baby== you arent supposed to BD everyday. You arent giving him anytime to build back up his swimmers. Thats why they say every other day.

Quoting LOOPY4971:“ I only use preseed during my fertile window. I bought it off www.early-pregnancy-tests.com for $16.50 ... [snip!] ... but every body is different. It lasts me more than a month. I think this is the 3rd month I have had mine. Good luck hun.”

HAHA I bought preseed in bulk! lmao
I bought 3 boxes =)

Quoting ~NOT GIVING UP~:“ HAHA I bought preseed in bulk! lmao I bought 3 boxes =)”

Ha ha good idea. I didn't have the money for all that.

Quoting ~NOT GIVING UP~:“ prplpatudy==Yes I am temping everybody!! haha I gave in. It wasnt that I was against it, I just get SOOO ... [snip!] ... arent supposed to BD everyday. You arent giving him anytime to build back up his swimmers. Thats why they say every other day.”

it's not bad to do it every day is it? i heard of people who as soon as their AF is over they start BD every other day and during their most fertile time they BD every day.

even if we did BD every other day 6 would be enough for 1 month.

since you do use preseed when do you usually use it if you don't mind me asking...thanks!

Quoting LOOPY4971:“ Ha ha good idea. I didn't have the money for all that.”

DH told me he doesn't care what it takes so.... haha I bought it in bulk.
I want to buy other things off that site like the vitamins, but I dont know anyone thats tried it so I didn't know how good it would be. I googled the reviews for it but another vitamin came up thats better however i found the website for that vitamin but you cant order it from there so I didn't know what to do 

Quoting praying for 2009 baby:“ it's not bad to do it every day is it? i heard of people who as soon as their AF is over they start ... [snip!] ... day 6 would be enough for 1 month. since you do use preseed when do you usually use it if you don't mind me asking...thanks!”

I use it everytime because I love it! And my doc told me to BD every other day from CD10-CD18... but thats just his opinion and I'm going to listen to him for this month. He told DO NOT bd everyday!

Quoting ~NOT GIVING UP~:“ I use it everytime because I love it! And my doc told me to BD every other day from CD10-CD18... but thats just his opinion and I'm going to listen to him for this month. He told DO NOT bd everyday!”

The CD10-18 thingy..is that for a 28 day cycle?

Quoting Mason's Ma♥TTC #2:“ The CD10-18 thingy..is that for a 28 day cycle?”

Well I'm irregular and he said if its 28 day cycle regular than you count back from your expected period from CD20 - CD12 but thats hard for me so he told me to try CD10-CD18 and he said that should cover everything. but just to make sure I'm doing CD8-CD20 =)

Quoting ~NOT GIVING UP~:“ Well I'm irregular and he said if its 28 day cycle regular than you count back from your expected period ... [snip!] ... for me so he told me to try CD10-CD18 and he said that should cover everything. but just to make sure I'm doing CD8-CD20 =)”

After whats happened to me this month ( ) im going every other day from CD8 until AF comes again - or till i start testing on CD 32!! Lets just hope dh doesnt get sick of all the quickies lol

Quoting twinmami:“ After whats happened to me this month ( ) im going every other day from CD8 until AF comes again - or till i start testing on CD 32!! Lets just hope dh doesnt get sick of all the quickies lol”

I got the "I don't feel good" and the "I have a cramp" excuses already..what a woman..hahahaha. I told him to man up and do it..lol

Quoting Mason's Ma♥TTC #2:“ I got the "I don't feel good" and the "I have a cramp" excuses already..what a woman..hahahaha. I told him to man up and do it..lol”

HAHA Thats why I take that break inbetween... the break is for him not me LOL