Hardest decision

I have a 3 month old with my fiance whom I have recently been separated from and got back together. We just found out that I was pregnant again (only a couple weeks) and he is encouraging me to end the pregnancy. I see his point of view with our financial situation and being young but I am not sure that is the decision I want to make. He says he will be supportive of whatever I decide but I am so confused and hurt. I know we need to work on our relationship and be stable but I'm not sure if an abortion is the answer. Anyone ever been in a similar situation? Any advice?

Don't let him pressure you into doing it if you don't want to do it. There are options and help out there for you if you decide to keep it.

I'm pretty sure that your relationship would have an even harder time healing from something you may end up feeling resentful of him over if you are not 100% on board with the decision.

have a 4 moth old and im 11 weeks pregnant

its up to you dont be forced to make a decision that you dont want to make


im still getting my head around the fact im pregnant so soon
but i know that its the right choice for me to keep the pregnancy

Quoting Halloween_Surprise:" I have a 3 month old with my fiance whom I have recently been separated from and got back together. We ... [snip!] ... relationship and be stable but I'm not sure if an abortion is the answer. Anyone ever been in a similar situation? Any advice?"

BD tried to push me to get an abortion when i found out i was preg with our second one when our first was only 3 months. i told him that if thats how he really felt then he could go jump off a bridge

You need to be 100% sure before you abort. Bc the regret will eat you alive good luck on your decision.

I was in the same situation and still in it .We been together 9 years one son that is 2 and next one will be born in 9 weeks .money is tight but will make it work.. I really do not care what he has to say that child was made from us .just because he wants to end it means nothing to me this could either help your relationship or break it more... You just need to be strong!! sit and think whats best for you and the other baby can you handle it? i told my self i can handle it and work 2 jobs go to school and save and pinch all money i have.. with no help from him

Thank you all so much for your input. This is such a just my luck kind of thing to happen to me lol. I'm trying to decide when a good time to tell him that I want to keep the baby would be. It's not that he will run or anything like that, he just does not handle stress well!! I guess its time to make a doctors appointment this week. Thanks again everyone.

  he told me he wanted me to keep the baby before I even said anything. He said he was sorry he had even suggested it and that he was happy. It's a relief but still scary and a little hard to wrap my head around!! I'm hoping for a girl this time  

Congrats! i'm so happy it worked out the way you wanted.  

Fantastic! Prayers for a healthy pregnancy!