re: ♥ OFFICIAL MAY/APRIL 2012 MOMMAS ♥

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:"   i hope he does too! he has still just been having a feed at 12-1 and then sleeping till 5-6 i cant ... [snip!] ...   hows jax going with his? oh i hope your journey was ok, hope jax was good for you again. how did he sleep last night? "

My trip was good, Jax did awesome he slept more this time then when we went up there! He woke up at 345 then again at 530 and slept in my bed with me till 815. I think he has to get used to sleeping in his bed, in his room. When we were at my mom's he was in my room and sleeping in the rock-n-play thing and he has a lot more space in his bed. He's doing good with his cereal I just put it in his bottle last but tonight I'll try to feed it to him.

Quoting LaRelle:" My trip was good, Jax did awesome he slept more this time then when we went up there! He woke up at 345 ... [snip!] ... more space in his bed. He's doing good with his cereal I just put it in his bottle last but tonight I'll try to feed it to him."

aw im glad he did good for ya! oh thats good how has he been this weekend with his sleep? axels almost too big for his bassinet but i soooo dont want to put him in his own room yet  
he was doing ok with his sleep still having a dreamfeed at 12 then sleeping till 6ish but last night he woke up every 1-2 hrs again   i think his teeth are hurting hes teething real bad keeps getting red cheeks and dribbling heaps! yer axels doing awesome with his cereal he loves it!  

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" aw im glad he did good for ya! oh thats good how has he been this weekend with his sleep? axels almost ... [snip!] ... hes teething real bad keeps getting red cheeks and dribbling heaps! yer axels doing awesome with his cereal he loves it!   "

awe, Jax has been in his own room for about a month now. Poor Axel it's a bummer he's teething this early   I don't think Jax is teething yet. He's been sleeping thru the nights!!!

Quoting LaRelle:" awe, Jax has been in his own room for about a month now. Poor Axel it's a bummer he's teething this early   I don't think Jax is teething yet. He's been sleeping thru the nights!!!"

yay for jax! axel woke about 12 then i think he woke again at 6 but im not too sure i dont remember haha! na he probably isnt you will know when he is lol it sucks i wish he wasnt. i doubt he will sleep well tonight as he is asleep now and hes been asleep since 4 and its now 7.30 thats unlike him. have you done anything different to make jax sleep through? what time does he go down then wake up?

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" yay for jax! axel woke about 12 then i think he woke again at 6 but im not too sure i dont remember haha! ... [snip!] ... now 7.30 thats unlike him. have you done anything different to make jax sleep through? what time does he go down then wake up?"

I feed him cereal about 715-730 then when he's done I give him a bath and after his bath I feed him 4oz then bed. I also put nighttime lotion on him after his bath. Last night he was in bed about 830 and he woke up at 545. Is Axel either too cold or too hot? I have jax's room at 70 degrees and he's in a warmer pjs and I tuck in the blankets all around him so they are tight around him and his head and arms/hands are only out.

Quoting LaRelle:" I feed him cereal about 715-730 then when he's done I give him a bath and after his bath I feed him 4oz ... [snip!] ... a warmer pjs and I tuck in the blankets all around him so they are tight around him and his head and arms/hands are only out."

wow thats awesome! i hope he sticks to it!
he could be but i never no which one he might be although its very cold here atm, i always think hes too cold but then he will wake up and feel really hot after putting lots of blankets in there, i need to get a thermometer so i know how hot the room is, also i have axel swaddled still, maybe hes too old for it and needs to have his arms out. does jax have a paci?

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" wow thats awesome! i hope he sticks to it! he could be but i never no which one he might be although ... [snip!] ... the room is, also i have axel swaddled still, maybe hes too old for it and needs to have his arms out. does jax have a paci? "

He didn't do the best last night he was fussy from 3-430, but I just kept giving him his paci and he would calm down but once the paci fell out of his mouth he would fuss again. Finally at 430 he took it and stayed asleep till 615. maybe try putting him in one piece pjs that are thicker material and then just putting a warm blanket around him and tuck all the sides all around him. I read that babies sleep better and it lowers the risk of SIDS if the temperature is between 65-70 and you just dress them a little on the warmer side. Yes he has a paci but he only wants it when he's fussy or sleeping. I hope Axel sleeps better for you!

Quoting LaRelle:" He didn't do the best last night he was fussy from 3-430, but I just kept giving him his paci and he ... [snip!] ... on the warmer side. Yes he has a paci but he only wants it when he's fussy or sleeping. I hope Axel sleeps better for you!"

urggghhh im sooo sick, think i have the flu i feel terrible and last night axel woke 11, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7,8,9 it was horrible, its really starting to depress me how badly his sleeping is, he has only slept 10 mins today and its now 6.40pm he is napping but keeps moving so isnt properly asleep, i just wish he would go back to sleeping good its draining me   how was jax last night? ill try the warmer onesie but dont know if it will help seems like nothing will help at the moment   hows you and christopher now your back?

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" urggghhh im sooo sick, think i have the flu i feel terrible and last night axel woke 11, 2, 3, 4, 5, ... [snip!] ... onesie but dont know if it will help seems like nothing will help at the moment   hows you and christopher now your back?"

I'm so sorry you don't feel good. I hope you feel better soon!!! I wonder why Axel isn't sleeping. Jax fussed 345-415 but I just kept giving him his paci and he ended up calming down and sleeping till 645. We are awful! I might as well be single. I eat dinner alone, I take care of Jax and Kylee by myself. He doesn't help me at all. If I say anything about him not helping me he says this is what you wanted to be a stay home mom. Really?!?! He comes and goes and does whatever he wants. I just think I'm to my point I can't take this anymore. I was trying to make it work for Jax but I just can't do it anymore. Plus I don't want Jax around this and I don't want Jax to grow up thinking it's ok to treat females like this. I want my son to be so much better than that. I wish I could just leave now, but my cousin and aunt are coming here next week from Colorado. My cousin has a conference for her work and my aunt is coming too so they can see me and Jax. So I have to deal with this till after they are gone. Maybe things will get better by the time they leave but I doubt it. I do love him so much but I deserve to be treated like a woman not like trash. Jax is the only thing that is keeping me going and can put a smile on my face, I hate my life right now   I hope Axel sleeps good for you!

Quoting LaRelle:" I'm so sorry you don't feel good. I hope you feel better soon!!! I wonder why Axel isn't sleeping. Jax ... [snip!] ... thing that is keeping me going and can put a smile on my face, I hate my life right now   I hope Axel sleeps good for you!"

thanks i feel better now   well still feel a little rough but no where near as bad as i did.
i know it sure does suck especially as its my birthday at the end of the month and im supposed to be having a joint bday party with my best friend and were supposed to be going out for drinks but its going to be hard if he wont have a bottle and wont be sleeping  
thats horrible sorry your in that situation, i hope it gets better for you soon! yer good on ya i would hate axel growing up treating women like dirt too. aw hopefully you have a nice time when your cousin and aunt comes over. you so do! im glad you have jax to make you smile. dont say that atleast you have a beautiful son and family that will love you no matter what! i hope things get better for you i really do *hugs* .
hows jax been sleeping? i gave axel 2 dreamfeeds last night so he slept 8-7 but that was me feeding him while he was asleep.

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" thanks i feel better now   well still feel a little rough but no where near as bad as i did. i know ... [snip!] ... . hows jax been sleeping? i gave axel 2 dreamfeeds last night so he slept 8-7 but that was me feeding him while he was asleep."

Well I hope Axel works with you and takes a bottle and sleeps for you so you could enjoy your birthday bash!!! Jax has been sleeping not so good. He's been getting up at 2-230 and it takes me a couple of hours to get him back to sleep. I think he feels something is going on. So Chris and I are done. I'm moving back to Maryland next week! I'm sad the I'm most sad about is he's going to lose out on his son, but I guess that's the choose he has made. Least Jax can rely on one of his parents!

Quoting LaRelle:" Well I hope Axel works with you and takes a bottle and sleeps for you so you could enjoy your birthday ... [snip!] ... is he's going to lose out on his son, but I guess that's the choose he has made. Least Jax can rely on one of his parents!"

how has his sleeping been recently? monday axel slept 8-11 then 11.20-7.30! awesome for him! then tues 8-12.30 then woke again at 6.30 pretty good again then last night (wed)he slept 8-3.30 then woke again at 6.30. i doubt it will last but it would be awesome if it did and he would be sleeping the 8-3.30 because then i wont have to worry about him waking and needing a feed when im out on my birthday  
yer its good jax can rely on 1 of you. sorry you split i hope everything goes well with the move and that. have you talked since? what day are you moving? where are you going to live? with your mum? good luck hun!

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" how has his sleeping been recently? monday axel slept 8-11 then 11.20-7.30! awesome for him! then tues ... [snip!] ... the move and that. have you talked since? what day are you moving? where are you going to live? with your mum? good luck hun!"

Yay Axel!!! Jax slept all night last night 9-615, but the other nights not so good he's been waking up at 4ish and then again at 5-6, We have talked and I tried to make it work for Jax's sake but he doesn't want to so I'm done trying. He's such being an smurf and giving up on his family. The sad thing is he won't get to see his son everyday and he seems to be ok with it. I'm moving beginning of next week. Yes I'll be staying with my mom till I get on my feet and get my own place.

Quoting LaRelle:" Yay Axel!!! Jax slept all night last night 9-615, but the other nights not so good he's been waking up ... [snip!] ... be ok with it. I'm moving beginning of next week. Yes I'll be staying with my mom till I get on my feet and get my own place."

yay! it must be good for you that he is sleeping pretty much through the night. axel slept 8-3.30 again last night i hope he stays like this until atleast my birthday haha! are you feeding jax actual solids now? does he like it? can he eat well? what have you given him so far? dya think thats whats making him sleep through? i cant believe hes being like that! what a jerk! you deserve better! i cant believe hes giving up on you and is ok with being away from jax its just insane im soo sorry. jax is lucky he has you and your family. good luck with your move! x

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" yay! it must be good for you that he is sleeping pretty much through the night. axel slept 8-3.30 again ... [snip!] ... ok with being away from jax its just insane im soo sorry. jax is lucky he has you and your family. good luck with your move! x"

yea I feed him olids. He gets cereal at breakfast, lunch, and dinner. With lunch and dinner he had carrots. Today(saturday) he gets to try a new veggie. He loves it and does really good with it. I do think he's been doing better at night cuz of eating solids. Cuz since I've started feeding him solids he's been sleeping thru the night. Have you started to feed Axel solids yet? Thanks I will be ok in time. It's really hard right now but I have to be strong for Jax