at first i was pretty sure

about abortion, but now my family is not supporting it at all.. so now im kind of confused. and its really not fair. And i do kind of feel bad, but im pregnant (i think by my first daughters dad) but my boyfriends in jail i been with for 2 years, so i dont know if i just tell him im pregnant and if he aint happy he can just leave me i guess ? or just break up with him since he is in jail anyways and never talk to him again but then ill feel bad i just hate having to explain if i keep the baby and now im just really confused  

This is your life, your body, and your decision.

Do whatever is best for you. Even if your family doesn't agree with it.

The decision is up to you. You should probably tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him.

soo.. wait. im confused are you saying you arent sure who the father is? so you want to get an abortion?

Quoting Wiggity Wack:" This is your life, your body, and your decision."

i know they are just making it a hard decision than it was.

Quoting CKY *34*:" The decision is up to you. You should probably tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him."

i dont feel like going through all of that..
but i guess if i keep it i have too, but i would rather just not talk to him anymore because i dont feel like fighting and arguing over something i cant change  

So what I am getting from this is that you think having an abortion is better than telling your boyfriend you cheated?

Your choice overall, but I think that would be a hard thing to live with. If you wanted an abortion for you that is one thing.

Are you gonna tell your boyfriend about this??

 

Quoting Meadow's Mommy:" soo.. wait. im confused are you saying you arent sure who the father is? so you want to get an abortion?"

no i mean im pretty sure its rihanna's dad.
because he is the only person i had sex with in December.. and the abortion reasons are b/c i dont even have Rihanna right now and i can't afford a baby, and her dad dont even help with her, so i know he wont help with this one. and i would rather have her and support her before having another baby

Quoting i don't make vaginas. :" Are you gonna tell your boyfriend about this??  "

i dont know yet.

Quoting Rihanna`s Mommy:" i know they are just making it a hard decision than it was."

To put it bluntly: smurf em'. You need to be thinking about your emotional and financial well being, as well as your daughter's. They won't be living with consequences of your decision, you will.

Quoting Wiggity Wack:" To put it bluntly: smurf em'. You need to be thinking about your emotional and financial well being, as well as your daughter's. They won't be living with consequences of your decision, you will."

I know and i feel like if i have another baby, i will never be finacially stable and ill never get her back b/c i have to take care of another baby, and right now i dont care about the baby im pregnant with i just care about rihanna

Quoting Rihanna`s Mommy:" I know and i feel like if i have another baby, i will never be finacially stable and ill never get ... [snip!] ... b/c i have to take care of another baby, and right now i dont care about the baby im pregnant with i just care about rihanna"

Who took Rhianna?

Quoting Wiggity Wack:" Who took Rhianna?"

My aunt has had her since July b/c of money problems