re: at first i was pretty sure

Quoting Rihanna`s Mommy:" no i mean im pretty sure its rihanna's dad. because he is the only person i had sex with in December.. ... [snip!] ... help with her, so i know he wont help with this one. and i would rather have her and support her before having another baby"

well then i think that making the decision of having an abortion is a very good idea... unless your family is going to pay for the child then i really dont see how it is any of their business.
BUT... i do think it is wrong for you to not tell your BF just to avoid conflict. i mean do what you want. it just doesnt really seem right.

Quoting Rihanna`s Mommy:" My aunt has had her since July b/c of money problems"

Anyone who tells you that bringing another child into an already difficult situation is "the right thing to do", needs their damn head examined.

Quoting Wiggity Wack:" Anyone who tells you that bringing another child into an already difficult situation is "the right thing to do", needs their damn head examined."

they just keeps saying adoption, but i really cant carry a baby and then give it away smurf i already basically gave rihanna away i cant give all my kids away its already hard enough with her

Quoting Wiggity Wack:" Anyone who tells you that bringing another child into an already difficult situation is "the right thing to do", needs their damn head examined."

agreed. not to mention you need to worry about the baby you already have!

Quoting Meadow's Mommy:" agreed. not to mention you need to worry about the baby you already have!"

i know i do because i really want her back

Quoting Rihanna`s Mommy:" they just keeps saying adoption, but i really cant carry a baby and then give it away smurf i already basically gave rihanna away i cant give all my kids away its already hard enough with her"

Again, who is going to be dealing with the emotional consequences of giving away your baby? You. Smurf their opinions. Focus on reality.

Quoting Brittanie♥:" So what I am getting from this is that you think having an abortion is better than telling your boyfriend ... [snip!] ... Your choice overall, but I think that would be a hard thing to live with. If you wanted an abortion for you that is one thing."

 

I would just own up and tell him you cheated. I'd rather live with the guilt of cheating, than the guilt of getting an abortion to avoid admitting to cheating.

Do what feels right for YOU. If you want the abortion that is one thing, but don't feel like you have to get one to appease anyone else.

Quoting Wiggity Wack:" This is your life, your body, and your decision."

  

Whatever decision you make, whether it be to keep the baby or to have an abortion should be made by you and based on what you want. If you keep it is your family going to take care of it for you?
And this is just my personal opinion, but if your boyfriend is in jail, he doesn't have much say about your pregnancy. You didn't ask him to break the law and go to jail... not your fault if you can't wait forever for him.

Maybe adoption, if you can't afford another child don't feel bad. You need to do whats right for you.

Quoting MamaCass{Julia&Owen}EBFT:"   I would just own up and tell him you cheated. I'd rather live with the guilt of cheating, than ... [snip!] ... right for YOU. If you want the abortion that is one thing, but don't feel like you have to get one to appease anyone else. "

I told him.