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Quoting Aileen's mommy 10/29/10:" Hi my name is kary I'm 22 years old I'm currently a single mom of a 1 year old my ex husband is a drug ... [snip!] ... I would like to have the babies ashes if your comment is not advise or support if not please keep your comments your self"

Sorry you're going through this. I don't think you would be permitted to keep the baby because it could be considered a biohazard. Maybe you can find an equally meaningful way to remember it, though. Best of luck.

I dont think you can keep the baby, there wont be much to make into ashes.

my advice to you? if youll go on the road of abortion DO IT NOW, do not wait till much later since youare allready 13 weeks along! do it NOW.


no you can not keep the baby, atleast i never heard of it, as soon is ihad mine they do it with suction so really...i wouldnt want to see it.


and later on, i think you wouldnt want to do it....

Quoting B( o )( o )BS!:" Sorry you're going through this. I don't think you would be permitted to keep the baby because it could ... [snip!] ... because it could be considered a biohazard. Maybe you can find an equally meaningful way to remember it, though. Best of luck."

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I'm really sorry you're going through that :-( It's a tough decision to make for any woman, even when it is the right one. But no, you wouldn't be able to keep the baby after the abortion. I'm not sure if you're aware of what happens during a D&C but it's definitely not standard practice nor do I suspect is it acceptable in the least for a doctor to let you take it after, even to be cremated. Sorry momma.

U dont deliver a fully formed baby, hun. I think maybe u should look into what they do, because Im not 100% sure, but I know a whole entire baby doesnt come out... Im sorry but you are amazing and strong for making this choice, as the best choice for urself & ur family.

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That's my second option

I doubt you will be able to for bio hazard reasons but if it is important to you, get tons of pictures and get a reborn made. Those ladies do some seriously realistic work!

Quoting Aileen's mommy 10/29/10:" Hi my name is kary I'm 22 years old I'm currently a single mom of a 1 year old my ex husband is a drug ... [snip!] ... I would like to have the babies ashes if your comment is not advise or support if not please keep your comments your self"

Hey I really advise that you do the abortion asap before you get to attached it will only be harder if you wait my baby died on this day a year ago she was stillborn its the hardest thing ever because I was attached to her I got to berry my child but I don't think with abortion they will let you do that or let you keep ashes because its to small. I wouldn't advise you to keep it even if you can it will be a constant reminder and could give you grate depression and keep you wondering what if.... I wish you all the best of luck and hope you do the right thing for you.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" I doubt you will be able to for bio hazard reasons but if it is important to you, get tons of pictures and get a reborn made. Those ladies do some seriously realistic work!"

do you know how an abort at 13 / 14 weeks look like?

Quoting -C.Lit- :" do you know how an abort at 13 / 14 weeks look like?"

Not a clue, just saying if it's something she really wants, that's probably the route to go I guess. The also make "fetus" necklaces at a lot of early of fetuses.

I don't think so. I remember when I had my miscarriage I was around the same as you and I asked if I could, and they said no. Should have miscarried at home, eh? I am so sorry you are going through this hun   I can't imagine how difficult it is to be in this situation. It is never an easy decision but you are strong for thinking about what is best for you and both of your babies.

If it was in late August you would be more like 20 weeks..do you mean late October.

I totally support your choice. Im not sure if you've ever been through an abortion, but the physiological part needs to be evaluated. (At least in Canada). Im worried you may not emotionaly be able to handle this. I know time is tight...but I hope you think hard and research a bit as quick as you can. I wish you strength mama, and Im sorry you are going through this.