Quoting ~DP~:" Just did alot of extensive reading on Borderline Personality Disorder and now realize my ex fits almost ... [snip!] ... he has called from, but he'll just keep calling from different ones Would it be over-the-top and dramatic to get a TRO?"
Quoting MommyRu:" What is a TRO? I changed my phone number because of my ex, but barely anyone calls me other than my parents. "
Quoting ~DP~:" temporary restraining order..."
Quoting MommyRu:" Ah... I should have known that, I'm sorry! Would you be able to get a TRO just because of phone calls? That isn't enough in this country. "
Quoting ~DP~:" That I'm not sure.. I don't even know if it would count as harassment being that he strategically waits several days before calling me again. Thankfully he hasn't showed up at my house... not yet,"
Quoting MommyRu:" When that happens, then yes, call the cops and file for harassment and a TRO. Don't open the door or let him in. "
Quoting ~DP~:" Oh I most definitely won't. I also got a pitbull that'll attack his sorry ass if he tries anything funny. ... [snip!] ... tries anything funny. Btw, I read your story and it was just heartbreaking. I'm so happy you're in a much better place now."
Quoting MommyRu:" Thank you! I'm doing good now. And yay for the pitbull!! "
Quoting ღJae23:" I've been in an abusive relationship, with my unborn baby's father. I just dont know how somebody that ... [snip!] ... it.. I left him for the sake of me and my baby.. its just so hard to move on, i mean how can your bestfriend do that to you?"
Quoting Nova and Nessa's Momma:" Is this thread still open? I was reading through the list in the OP and several of the behaviors popped out to me, and a few of the things a few ladies have said in here, my SO acts like that... "Yes this thread is still open, however, not having any replies for a while removed it from my watched list. What does he do or say if you don't mind sharing?