having trouble.......
posted 4th Apr
i've told my fiance, my aunt Gina and her husband and some of my friends and his friends but there's still some people i can't.
I can tell my mom or dad or any of my other family.......i mean my dad did say yesterday that he wants to have another baby.......and i was sitting there thinking "you have no idea that i'm pregnant with your grandchild"
I just don't know how to tell him and worse i don't know how he will react to it or my mom. They were both 17 when they had me and i put a hold on their plans and my mom is telling me to wait to have kids and get my life together first. But now that i am pregnant i don't know what to do.......I don't know how to tell my parents i'm carrying their first grandchild.....someone please help me
quoteposted 4th Apr
Yuck. The whole telling parents thing sucks. I'd just bite the bullet and get it off your chest. I'd recommend telling them separately though, that way they have to talk to you and can't feed off of each other's emotions.
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Utahposted 4th Apr
You might want to try reposting this during the day. You'll get so many responses you won't know what to do with them all. That's the problem with being being on here at night...oh well.
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Utahposted 4th Apr
It might not be as bad as you think. My parents were both shocked when I told them when I was pregnant with my son. The first words out of my dad's mouth was "Well Sweetie, I thought you were going to go to college first" The were happy, just surprised. We were too since I was taking the pill. Hope it goes well when you decide to tell them.
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Tennesseeposted 4th Apr
best thing to do is just get it over and done with sooner rather than later, the sooner u don it the more time they have 2 get used 2 the idea and its not nice for them 2 be the last 2 kno
quoteposted 4th Apr
I'd just tell them. Most times it works out good sometimes it just takes a few days or so and then they are ok with it. The longer you wait the harder it will be and the more upset they will be. I know my mom knew from the start my dad i didn't tell til like a month before i had my son. He was only mad i waited to tell him.
quoteposted 5th Apr
Well no worries about telling them cause i'm not pregnant. My test was negative and i have my period so i guess i'll just keep trying.
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